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Podcast Spotlight: You Are Not Crazy by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
5 Tips From a Divorce Professional with Jessica Knight by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Hereโs How Working With a Divorce Coach Can Help You During Divorce by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Book Spotlight: Unhooked by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Expert Feature: Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
When You Did Everything Right and the Court Still Didn't See It by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Expert Feature: Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author by Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author of Debra Alper | Divorce Consultant, Relational Strategist
The Paint Chip Test: Getting Your Voice Back One Small Choice at a Time by Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author of Debra Alper | Divorce Consultant, Relational Strategist
Principles for Navigating Your Divorce by Meriel Sanchez-Cordero, Divorce Coach of The Pattern Project
Separated but Still Living Together? 5 Ways to Protect Your Peace Until You Can Move Out by Leah Marie Mazur, Divorce Recovery Coach of Mindfully Ready
Separated or Divorced and Paying K-12 Private School Tuition? Financial Aid May Be Available by Vicki Vollweiler, Divorce & College Planning Expert of College Financial Prep
The Biggest Misconceptions About Divorce, According to a Divorce Professional by Isabel Sanchez, Financial Coach of MES Financial Coaching, LLC.
Justice? When the court does not see what you see by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Suicide Ideation in Families Living with Coercive Control by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Should I Stay or Should I Go? What an Iceland Glacier Taught Me About Walking Away by Kimberly Lorah, Divorce Coach of Mediation Preparation Specialist
Podcast Spotlight: Becoming You Again by Karin Nelson, Divorce Coach of Karin Nelson Coaching
Expert Feature: Meredith Vandegrift, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon by Meredith Vandegrift, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon of Vandegrift Plastic Surgery
High-Conflict Divorce or Coercive Control? Why Family Courts Keep Getting It Wrong by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
When โJust Co-Parentโ Doesnโt Fit Your Reality by Tammy Adcock, Divorce Coach of Adcock Coaching LLC
The Parts Of Divorce We Don't Talk About - Entrapment, The Fear You Live With by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Sexual Coercion: The Thing Women Carry in Silence by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Divorce Myths We Are Officially Breaking Up With by Lori Heller, Divorce Coach of Lori Heller Divorce Coaching
Your sister is texting daily, dropping by unannounced, and asking if youโre okay a hundred times a week. It comes from love, but itโs a lot. Olivia explains why needing quiet isnโt a betrayal of that love, and how one honest, gentle text can protect the relationship instead of hurting it.
This November, the Divorce Happens Community is digging into "Who Showed Up," a theme about the friendships that surprised us, the ones that quietly disappeared, and everything in between.
November is a month of tension and transition, which makes it a fitting time to talk about negotiation, the process where much of divorce actually gets decided. Whether it happens through attorneys, in mediation, or at a settlement conference, negotiation isnโt about winning or losing. Itโs about reaching workable agreements and keeping decisions in the hands of the people who will live with them. Preparation, clear priorities, and patience matter more than force.
A readerโs mom and sibling keep criticizing her ex in front of the kids, and they think theyโre helping. In this monthโs Jenny Says So, Jenny explains how to draw a firm line without debating your exโs merits, and offers a script for the pushback thatโs sure to follow.
November Letter from the Editor
November asks us to feel grateful, which can be a lot to ask in the middle of a divorce. In this monthโs letter, Editor in Chief Jenny Dreizen suggests a gentler approach: noticing one small thing that went okay, and letting that be enough. She also thanks the experts, supporters and everyday helpers who make this work possible.
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Inspiration
Are you ready for a Fresh Start? Here are 5 quotes about starting over and beginning again to inspire you on your new journey.
Tweets are the new mantras. Weโre rounding up our top 5 weekly Tweets to inspire us on our Fresh Starts journey.
Expert Articles
Podcast Spotlight: You Are Not Crazy by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
5 Tips From a Divorce Professional with Jessica Knight by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Hereโs How Working With a Divorce Coach Can Help You During Divorce by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Book Spotlight: Unhooked by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Expert Feature: Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
When You Did Everything Right and the Court Still Didn't See It by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Expert Feature: Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author by Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author of Debra Alper | Divorce Consultant, Relational Strategist
The Paint Chip Test: Getting Your Voice Back One Small Choice at a Time by Debra Alper, Therapist/Divorce Consultant/Speaker/Author of Debra Alper | Divorce Consultant, Relational Strategist
Principles for Navigating Your Divorce by Meriel Sanchez-Cordero, Divorce Coach of The Pattern Project
Separated but Still Living Together? 5 Ways to Protect Your Peace Until You Can Move Out by Leah Marie Mazur, Divorce Recovery Coach of Mindfully Ready
Separated or Divorced and Paying K-12 Private School Tuition? Financial Aid May Be Available by Vicki Vollweiler, Divorce & College Planning Expert of College Financial Prep
The Biggest Misconceptions About Divorce, According to a Divorce Professional by Isabel Sanchez, Financial Coach of MES Financial Coaching, LLC.
Justice? When the court does not see what you see by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Suicide Ideation in Families Living with Coercive Control by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Should I Stay or Should I Go? What an Iceland Glacier Taught Me About Walking Away by Kimberly Lorah, Divorce Coach of Mediation Preparation Specialist
Podcast Spotlight: Becoming You Again by Karin Nelson, Divorce Coach of Karin Nelson Coaching
Expert Feature: Meredith Vandegrift, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon by Meredith Vandegrift, Board Certified Plastic Surgeon of Vandegrift Plastic Surgery
High-Conflict Divorce or Coercive Control? Why Family Courts Keep Getting It Wrong by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
When โJust Co-Parentโ Doesnโt Fit Your Reality by Tammy Adcock, Divorce Coach of Adcock Coaching LLC
The Parts Of Divorce We Don't Talk About - Entrapment, The Fear You Live With by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Sexual Coercion: The Thing Women Carry in Silence by Lisa Happ, Divorce Coach of Lisa Happ Coaching
Divorce Myths We Are Officially Breaking Up With by Lori Heller, Divorce Coach of Lori Heller Divorce Coaching
Podcast Spotlight: The Families First Podcast from โRon Platt of National Association for Single and Divorced Families
Here's How Working With a Divorce Coach Can Help You by Cherie Morris, Divorce Coach of Dear Divorce Coach
The Problem With Asking AI for Divorce Advice by Elise Buie, Family Law and Divorce Attorney
The First Day of School After Divorce: Creating New Traditions by Meg Priest, Divorce Coach
Helpful Distractions
Sometimes we all just need to check out of life for a while, whether youโre going through a depression, having a difficult time, or just need to hide from the world โ we get it, weโve been there! Hereโs our list of 10 television shows to watch when youโre feeling depressed. Weโre sending you love, and hope you wrap yourself in a warm blanket, grab a cup of hot cocoa, and snuggle in for some binge-watching.
Sometimes we all just need to escape mentally for a while, so we rounded up 10 funny and interesting documentaries to watch for when youโre feeling low. With a mix of everything from Pixar, to Mister Rogers, music, food, and more, weโre sure thereโs something here to watch with a bowl of popcorn and a Diet Coke.
There is truly nothing we love more than snuggling up with a good book and cup of cocoa during the winter (yes, this counts even if you live on the West Coast!). The only thing that would make it better? A Cozy Playlist, of course! We curated this 45 minute long playlist to give you a peaceful break during the day. Chock full of old and new faves, itโs the perfect way to warm up and zone out.
Need to escape for a few hours? We rounded up our favorite reality competition TV shows for those times when you need to zone out and distract yourself. Nothing about romance or home-buying here, though! Food fun and nostalgia TV all the way.
Youโre in the early days of your fresh start and the idea of closing your eyes and you know- thinking thoughts, is way, way too horrifying (been there, sis). You need a companion- not a person, but a show. You need a show you can binge.
Divorce Guide Magazine
The First Day of School After Divorce: Creating New Traditions by Meg Priest, Divorce Coach
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a relationship coach while navigating your divorce to find the right support for healing, rebuilding confidence, and improving communication. Learn how their experience, coaching strategies, and emotional sensitivity can help you move forward stronger and more self-aware.
What Happens When Youโre a Stepparent - and Youโre Getting Divorced by Meg Priest, Divorce Coach
In an insightful interview, Meg Priest, a Divorce Professional, shares her personal journey through divorce. She discusses the emotional challenges, the importance of clarity, and her mission to provide clients with the guidance she wished she had during her own transition. Embrace your fresh start with integrity and self-trust!
Preparing for divorce can feel overwhelming, but gathering the right documents early makes the process smoother. From tax returns and pay stubs to retirement statements and insurance policies, hereโs what to collect before filing. Download our free ebook What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce for step-by-step guidance.
Divorce can dramatically impact your retirement savings, especially IRAs and 401(k)s. Learn the essentials of dividing these assets through Transfer Incidents and QDROs, understand tax implications, and avoid common pitfalls. This comprehensive guide explains everything you need to know to protect your financial future during divorce and ensure long-term stability.
Buying a house on your own after a divorce is a bold step towards reclaiming your independence and rebuilding your life. But itโs crucial to go into it with eyes wide open. Asking your mortgage lender these ten questions ensures that you understand not just what youโre signing up for, but how to thrive as a solo homeowner
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a relationship coach while navigating your divorce to find the right support for healing, rebuilding confidence, and improving communication. Learn how their experience, coaching strategies, and emotional sensitivity can help you move forward stronger and more self-aware.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a children's therapist while navigating divorce to ensure your child receives the emotional support they need. Learn how their experience, therapeutic approach, and ability to handle co-parenting dynamics can provide a safe space for your child to heal and grow.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a fitness instructor or movement coach while navigating your divorce to find the right support for rebuilding physical strength, reducing stress, and boosting confidence. Learn how their experience, fitness programs, and emotional sensitivity can help you thrive during this transition.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a professional organizer while navigating a divorce to find the right support for decluttering, downsizing, and moving. Learn how their experience, organizing strategies, and emotional sensitivity can help you create a fresh, organized start post-divorce.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a life coach while navigating a divorce to find the right support for emotional recovery, goal setting, and rebuilding your life. Learn how their experience, mindfulness strategies, and community-building guidance can empower you to thrive post-divorce.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a career coach while navigating a divorce to find the right support for your professional growth. Learn how their experience, strategies for re-entering the workforce, and interview preparation can help you achieve financial independence and confidence post-divorce.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a potential co-parenting coach to ensure successful communication and harmony post-divorce. Learn how their experience, conflict resolution skills, and approach to parenting plans can help create a smooth, child-focused co-parenting experience.
Learn the 10 essential questions to ask a potential divorce mediator to ensure a smooth, fair, and confidential mediation process. From understanding their experience and mediation style to confidentiality and cost structure, discover what you need to know before making your choice. Find the right mediator to guide you through a collaborative, stress-free divorce process.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask when choosing a divorce coach. Learn how to assess their experience, support for high-conflict situations, understanding of co-parenting, and emotional resilience strategies. Explore how the right coach can help you navigate the complexities of divorce, rebuild your life, and set clear goals for your future.
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask when choosing a therapist during divorce. From co-parenting support and managing high-conflict divorces to understanding therapeutic methods and financial stress, ensure your therapist is equipped to guide you through this transformative life event.
When your lawyer says, "Make a list of everything you want," it can feel overwhelming. Divorce is about more than paperwork โ it's about protecting your future, your childrenโs stability, and your ability to rebuild. This guide breaks down exactly what to ask for in a divorce, why each item matters, and how to advocate for yourself clearly and confidently.
When youโre navigating divorce, custody, domestic violence, or property division โ or any life-changing legal situation โ having professional legal guidance can be the difference between confusion and confidence. But what if hiring a lawyer at full price just isnโt possible right now? Letโs walk through one of the smartest ways to get professional help without breaking the bank: Legal Aid and Sliding Scale Legal Services.
Considering a DIY divorce? Before you file on your own, learn the key factors you need to weigh, from legal risks to emotional impact. A do-it-yourself divorce can save money, but itโs not always the right fit. Discover what to consider to protect your future and make confident, informed decisions.
If youโre ready to get divorced but canโt afford a lawyerโor simply want to handle the process on your ownโthereโs a powerful, low-cost option you might not know enough about: self-filing for divorce, also known as DIY divorce. With the right tools, resources, and guidance, many people successfully complete their divorce without legal representationโespecially when both spouses agree on the major issues like custody, support, and property division. This guide walks you through what DIY divorce is, why itโs a smart choice for many, and how to get started step by step.
Going through divorce or custody issues but canโt afford a lawyer? Law school legal clinics offer free family law support from supervised students. This blog post explains how to find a clinic near you, what services they provide, and how to apply. Learn how to access divorce help, court filings, and custody guidanceโwithout the legal fees.
Need help covering the cost of your divorce? This blog post offers practical, respectful advice on how to ask friends or family for a short-term loanโwithout guilt or burning bridges. Learn how to create a repayment plan, approach the conversation with confidence, and fund your fresh start with support and clarity. Perfect for anyone starting over on a budget.
If youโre facing divorce, leaving an unsafe relationship, or navigating a major life change without support, nonprofit organizations and shelters can be a lifeline. This blog post shares how to find free, confidential helpโlike legal aid, housing, transportation, and moreโthrough womenโs shelters, local nonprofits, and national resources like 211 and The Hotline.
Divorce can be expensive, but legal help doesnโt have to be out of reach. This blog post walks you through how to find family law attorneys who offer payment plans, flat fees, or unbundled services. Learn how to ask about payment options during consultations and where to search for budget-friendly legal support so you can move forward without financial overwhelm.
If youโre facing divorce or a custody battle and canโt afford a lawyer, pro bono attorneys can help. This blog post explains how to find free legal support through state bar associations, legal aid clinics, and nonprofit organizations. Learn who qualifies, what to expect, and how to confidently ask for the help you deserve.
Filing for divorceโor any family court actionโcan be overwhelming enough without the added stress of high court filing fees. The good news? You might not have to pay them at all. If youโre struggling financially, your local courthouse may allow you to file "In Forma Pauperis"โa legal term that simply means "in the form of a pauper" or, more plainly, you canโt afford the costs and need them waived. Hereโs everything you need to know, including exact scripts for calling your courthouse, and step-by-step instructions to get started.
Fresh and Easy Meals
Feeling broke, tired, and overwhelmed but still want your childโs birthday to feel special? Hereโs how to create a meaningful, low-cost birthday dinner filled with love, connection, and comfort.
Learn how to stretch one rotisserie chicken into a week of easy, affordable meals for families. Simple, healthy recipes for busy single parents on a budget.
Struggling to feed your kids while youโre depressed, broke, or too tired to cook? This compassionate guide offers simple, affordable meal ideas and emotional support for single moms surviving hard days.
Feed your family all week for under $40 with these easy, freezer-friendly batch cooking recipes for single moms. Cheap, kid-friendly, and stress-free meals that save time and money.
Canโt get to the grocery store? Make simple, cheap, kid-friendly meals from pantry staples like rice, beans, and canned goods. Easy, healthy, and under $1 per serving.
Feed your family of four on $60โ$70 a week with this compassionate, budget-friendly seven-day meal plan. Simple, healthy dinners and a full shopping list for single moms.
Feed your family on $10 a day with these healthy, affordable breakfast and lunch ideas for single moms. Simple, kid-friendly meals that make every dollar count.
Quick, affordable, no-cook meals for single moms. 10 lifesaver dinners ready in minutesโkid-friendly, low-cost, and stress-free when youโre too tired to cook.
Find free or nearly-free food for single moms. Real, compassionate resourcesโpantries, food banks, WIC, SNAP, and local programsโto help feed your family.
Discover cheap, comforting recipes just for moms after bedtimeโquick $1 meals that feel like self-care and prove you deserve more than leftovers.
Feeding a family on a tight budget? Here are 15 kid-friendly, comforting dinners for about $2 per servingโcheap, healthy, and stress-free meals any parent can make tonight.
Discover why Kekoa Foods is a game-changer for families starting over. Created by two dads for their son, these organic, veggie-rich purรฉes are perfect for babies and busy adults. Use them as dips, dressings, marinades, or smoothie boosters. Nutritious, delicious, and made with loveโKekoa Foods makes fresh starts easier and healthier.
From classic combinations to creative twists, we've curated a list of 200 incredibly easy sandwich ideas that are perfect for busy families on the go. Because when life gets hectic, sometimes all you need is a delicious meal to keep you fueled and ready to tackle whatever comes your way. So, let's toast to the power of simplicity and the joy of a well-made sandwich!
Check out these 200 incredibly easy salad ideas for when life gets overwhelming. Plus, a simple shopping list so you can stock your fridge and pantry - and a list of all of the items so you can mix and match to create your own simple salad ideas too!
Life can be a whirlwind sometimes. Between work, family, and just the everyday hustle and bustle, there are moments when cooking is a lot. Check out these 200 incredibly easy meal ideas for when life gets overwhelming. Plus, a simple shopping list so you can stock your fridge and pantry - and a list of all of the items so you can mix and match to create your own simple meal ideas too!
Sometimes in life, we quite simply cannot handle making food for ourselves. Itโs too much energy output, itโs exhausting, itโs overwhelming to know what to make, the thought of doing anything is just too much. But, we have to eat, right? We rounded up 10 meals that are incredibly easy to throw together when you simply cannot handle cooking.
Itโs been a long week, check out the 5 Tweets to help inspire you to live your best life this week.