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Hey Olivia: Where Do I Even Begin the Divorce Process?
Olivia responds to a reader who’s been living with daily rejection for years—trying to stay for the kids and the cost of life, while hoping to avoid attorneys if possible. With warmth and clarity, Olivia offers a gentle, beginner-friendly roadmap: start with safety, quietly gather key documents, understand your real numbers, explore non-court options, and take one small next step (with Fresh Starts Registry there to help you map it all out).
Jenny Says So: The Divorce Announcement Dilemma
You’re not obligated to make a public “divorce announcement” — you can share quietly, selectively, and in whatever format feels safest. Jenny offers a simple boundary-first approach that reduces emotional labor and keeps you from over-explaining. Using the VASE Method (Validate, Acknowledge, Support, Express), you can tell the truth with warmth, clarity, and a built-in “no details” line that protects your peace.
Divorce 101: F Is for Financial Disclosure (and February)
February has a reputation for being about love—roses, chocolates, grand gestures. But in the world of divorce, February often marks something quieter and far more practical: clarity. That’s why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, F is for Financial Disclosure.
Divorce 101 A–Z: The Plain-Language Guide Everyone Deserves
Most divorce resources assume you already speak the language—leaving you overwhelmed when what you really need is clarity. Divorce 101 A–Z was created to explain divorce one letter at a time, using plain, compassionate language that removes fear instead of adding to it. In this episode, we share how this 26-part mini-series breaks down common terms and experiences without jargon, pressure, or worst-case spirals. Think of it as the Schoolhouse Rock of divorce: short, supportive lessons designed to meet you exactly where you are and help you start fresh.
What Is a Divorce Resource Consult—and Why It’s the Best Place to Start
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by divorce—or quietly wondering where to even begin—you’re not alone. Divorce Resource Consults were created to offer a calm, judgment-free starting point when everything feels heavy and unclear. In this episode, we explain how these free, confidential 15-minute calls with Olivia Howell provide clarity, direction, and real support without pressure or a sales pitch. Because divorce isn’t just legal—it’s deeply human, and you deserve a steady place to land as you start fresh.
The Dreaded “Where’s Dad” Question
When a simple question like “Where’s dad?” turns a public moment into an emotional landmine, what’s the polite way to respond? Jenny shares calm, confidence-building language that protects your privacy, models emotional safety for your kids, and reminds us that good etiquette never requires overexplaining.
I'm Divorced, and Now What? 10 Essential Steps to Get Your Life in Order After Divorce
Divorce is a life-changing event that often comes with a whirlwind of emotions, decisions, and adjustments. Once the paperwork is finalized, you might feel a sense of relief, but it’s also the beginning of a new chapter that requires careful attention to some essential administrative tasks. Whether it’s updating your financial documents, revisiting your estate plan, or managing joint accounts, this is the time to take control of your future and set yourself up for stability and success.
OMG: How Do I Take Care of My House?!
OMG: How Do I Take Care of My House?! by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
My Spouse Moved Out: how do I make this place feel like home again?
My Spouse Moved Out: how do I make this place feel like home again? by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
No Word for Vulnerability
No Word for Vulnerability by Jason Scriven founder of Divorce 101, Men’s Divorce Coach
Helping Kids Cope with Moving: A Guide for Parents
Helping Kids Cope with Moving: A Guide for Parents by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
Navigating the Emotional Goodbye: Letting Go of Your Home
Navigating the Emotional Goodbye: Letting Go of Your Home by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
Making Your New Home Yours: Breathe, Unpack, Have Fun
Making Your New Home Yours: Breathe, Unpack, Have Fun by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
Mother’s Day Hits Different as a Single Mom (It’s Actually Better)
Discover the liberating truth about Mother's Day as a single mom. Embrace the freedom to choose your own adventure and celebrate joy without the weight of societal expectations. Release the mental and emotional load to prioritize self-care and empowerment on this special day.
What I've learned as a Realtor (and a mom) while navigating divorce
What I've learned as a Realtor (and a mom) while navigating divorce by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent
The Million Dollar Question (and the worry that kept me awake)
The Million Dollar Question (and the worry that kept me awake) by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent