Read ‘em and weep (or laugh).
We have lots to say. We hope it helps in some small way!
A couple of tags we thought might be helpful —
Find what you need —
Decorate Your Door
A door is a threshold, not a destination. Remember covering yours in stickers before you knew what waited on the other side? Reconnect with her for a minute. Pick a room, add a few stickers, and save your door when it's yours again.
August is a Doorway
August Letter from the Editor
August gets no credit for being a season in its own right — but for anyone divorced or divorcing, it's the perfect metaphor for the liminal doorway between the decision and the new life on the other side. This issue's letter is your permission slip to stand in that threshold a little longer, because portals only open when they're ready.
Photo by Terrie Alifieri
5 Tips From a Divorce Professional with Donna Cates, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®
In an enlightening interview, Donna Cates, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, emphasizes the importance of financial clarity during divorce. She shares five essential tips to help individuals navigate their financial future confidently, focusing on asset management, credit protection, and the value of a supportive professional team.
Expert Feature Amy Slate, The Break Up Broker
In an insightful interview, Amy Slate, a dedicated Real Estate Consultant, discusses her journey to becoming The Breakup Broker, empowering clients during challenging transitions. She highlights the importance of personalized support and strategic planning, emphasizing her commitment to guiding individuals through real estate decisions in divorce with empathy and expertise.
Hey Olivia: I Thought I'd Feel Relieved. Instead I've Been Crying for Days.
A reader wonders why signing the divorce papers broke her open — and asks the question so many of us are afraid to ask out loud.
Divorce 101: A Is for Affidavit (and August)
An affidavit is a written statement made under oath — legal evidence, not an informal explanation — and in divorce it appears everywhere: financial affidavits detailing income and assets, parenting affidavits describing routines, and sworn statements supporting motions on custody, support, or safety.
Jenny Says So: The New Partner at Kid Events
A parent asks how to handle the ex's new partner suddenly appearing at school concerts, soccer games, and kid birthday parties — under the watchful eyes of other parents — without looking bitter or pretending to be a happy blended family. Jenny's rule is "neutral grace": be civil, brief, and kid-centered with a simple script and an exit strategy, then let yourself feel it all afterward.
Podcast Spotlight: Uncoupled & Unfiltered
Podcast Spotlight: Uncoupled & Unfiltered | Hosted by Ksenia Muench
Living Together During Divorce: The Strange Space Between What Was and What’s Next
Living Together During Divorce: The Strange Space Between What Was and What’s Next by Lisa Lisser of LZL Coaching
5 Small Ways to Start Trusting Yourself Again After Divorce
5 Small Ways to Start Trusting Yourself Again After Divorce by Leah Marie Mazur of Mindfully Ready, Divorce Recovery Coach for Women
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask a Potential Divorce Mediator
Learn the 10 essential questions to ask a potential divorce mediator to ensure a smooth, fair, and confidential mediation process. From understanding their experience and mediation style to confidentiality and cost structure, discover what you need to know before making your choice. Find the right mediator to guide you through a collaborative, stress-free divorce process.
What to consider when you’re considering divorce: everything to do with custody and children
In this guide, we’ll explore key factors to consider when navigating divorce with children—legal custody, physical custody, visitation schedules, and how to prioritize your child’s emotional well-being throughout the process.
Divorce Guide: How to Talk to Your Kids About Your New Relationship After Divorce
Talking to your kids about a new relationship after divorce can feel daunting, but it’s a conversation that lays the foundation for trust and emotional security. By handling this conversation thoughtfully, you can ease their worries, answer their questions, and create a safe space for everyone to navigate this new chapter together.
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask Bank and Credit Card Company During Your Divorce
Divorce is a major life transition, and managing your finances is one of the most critical aspects of navigating this change. In this post, we’ll cover 10 essential questions to ask your bank and credit card company during your divorce.