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Jenny Says So: The Group Hang After the Breakup
Shared friend group post-divorce? You’re allowed to ask for a softer landing. It’s not rude to request some events without your ex—or at least a heads-up for smaller gatherings. Lead with clarity + generosity: you’re not demanding, you’re helping friends host thoughtfully. If they can’t accommodate, opt out guilt-free—with love and manners.
Divorce 101: M Is for Marital Assets (and March)
March has a way of waking us up—windows open, closets emptied, life quietly asking: what are we carrying forward? That’s why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, M is for Marital Assets. Marital assets are the things built during the marriage—sometimes obvious (the house, savings, retirement), sometimes surprising (stock options, points, miles)—and understanding them matters because you can’t protect or divide what you don’t even realize exists. This isn’t about being combative; it’s about getting clear, gathering what’s real, and making intentional choices as you step into what’s next.
Here’s How Working With a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® Can Help You with Melissa Pavone, CDFA®
In an insightful conversation, Melissa Pavone, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, explains how her expertise aids individuals navigating divorce. She highlights the importance of financial clarity and strategic decision-making, emphasizing long-term outcomes to empower clients. Collaborating with legal professionals, she facilitates informed decisions and reduces stress throughout the process.
5 Tips From a Divorce Professional with Lorraine Connell, Teen Confidence Coach Lorraine Connell
In an insightful interview, Lorraine Connell, a Teen Confidence Coach, emphasizes rebuilding self-assurance during divorce. She outlines five impactful strategies, urging parents to involve their children, confront emotions, communicate with schools, protect eldest siblings from added pressure, and model resilience, showcasing a fresh start through growth and connection.
Expert Feature Lisa Lisser, Divorce and Coparenting Coach
In a heartfelt discussion, Lisa Lisser, a Divorce and Coparenting Coach, shares her journey of transforming pain into purpose. She emphasizes the importance of emotional resilience, offering practical strategies for navigating divorce and co-parenting, helping clients reimagine their futures with hope and clarity.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Kelli Sedwick-Drummond, Divorce Coach, Personal Growth & Empowerment Coach
In an insightful interview, Kelli Sedwick-Drummond, a Divorce Coach and Personal Growth Expert, shares her journey through divorce, emphasizing resilience, empowerment, and the importance of support. She encourages others to view divorce as a fresh start, transforming personal challenges into growth opportunities.
Letter from the Editor: Let’s Exhale Together
March Letter from the Editor
March is movement—quiet, real, and at your pace. Jenny reflects on Olivia’s steady courage through divorce: the tiny decisions, the kitchen-table math, the “next true step.” This issue offers a flashlight, not a push—clarity, language, and gentle momentum.
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How to Energetically Clear Your Home After Divorce
How to Energetically Clear Your Home After Divorce by Jo-Anne Suriel of the Energetic Well
Routines to Support Your Wellbeing
Routines to Support Your Wellbeing by Emma Worth, LICSW and Therapist
Growth and Healing During Divorce: Learning From the Past Without Living There
Growth and Healing During Divorce: Learning From the Past Without Living There by Jill Kaufman founder of Divorce Coach Jill
What to Do If You Receive a Draft Court Order You Don’t Agree With
What if you receive a draft divorce order you don’t fully agree with? Remember: it isn’t final until a judge signs it. Learn how to review, respond, and protect your financial concerns—especially if you’re representing yourself. Fresh Starts has vetted divorce attorneys and financial experts who can help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, I was just served with divorce papers and I have no idea what to do!”
Being served with divorce papers can feel overwhelming and leave you wondering what to do next. In this Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios guide, divorce mediator and attorney Mardi Chadwick-Balcom shares expert advice on the first 24 hours after being served, which documents to gather, and how to respond with intention. Get clear, compassionate guidance to navigate this stressful moment with confidence.
The Divorce Support Book We've All Been Waiting For – Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women
Unhitched by therapist Oona Metz is the essential emotional guide for women navigating divorce. With over 30 years of experience, Metz offers practical tools, inclusive support, and compassionate insights to help women move through grief, co-parenting, and self-discovery. A must-read for thriving through divorce.
Divorce Guide: Divorce and Retirement: What No One Tells You About Splitting IRAs and 401(k)s
Divorce can dramatically impact your retirement savings, especially IRAs and 401(k)s. Learn the essentials of dividing these assets through Transfer Incidents and QDROs, understand tax implications, and avoid common pitfalls. This comprehensive guide explains everything you need to know to protect your financial future during divorce and ensure long-term stability.
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask a Fitness Instructor or Movement Coach While Navigating Your Divorce
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a fitness instructor or movement coach while navigating your divorce to find the right support for rebuilding physical strength, reducing stress, and boosting confidence. Learn how their experience, fitness programs, and emotional sensitivity can help you thrive during this transition.
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask a Potential Therapist When Navigating Divorce
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask when choosing a therapist during divorce. From co-parenting support and managing high-conflict divorces to understanding therapeutic methods and financial stress, ensure your therapist is equipped to guide you through this transformative life event.
What to Consider if You’re Considering Filing a DIY Divorce
Considering a DIY divorce? Before you file on your own, learn the key factors you need to weigh, from legal risks to emotional impact. A do-it-yourself divorce can save money, but it’s not always the right fit. Discover what to consider to protect your future and make confident, informed decisions.
Self-Filing for Divorce: How to Navigate DIY Divorce Without a Lawyer
If you’re ready to get divorced but can’t afford a lawyer—or simply want to handle the process on your own—there’s a powerful, low-cost option you might not know enough about: self-filing for divorce, also known as DIY divorce. With the right tools, resources, and guidance, many people successfully complete their divorce without legal representation—especially when both spouses agree on the major issues like custody, support, and property division. This guide walks you through what DIY divorce is, why it’s a smart choice for many, and how to get started step by step.