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Book Review: Divorce by Design by Melissa Murphy Pavone, CFP®, CDFA®
If there's one book we wish had existed during every difficult client conversation we've witnessed — and frankly, during every conversation we've had with friends navigating the unraveling of a marriage — it's Divorce by Design by Melissa Murphy Pavone.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Sandhya Gopal, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)
In an insightful conversation, Sandhya Gopal, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), shares her journey of navigating divorce and the financial complexities that arise. She emphasizes the importance of financial clarity and emotional stability, highlighting strategies for making informed decisions post-divorce to foster personal growth and independence.
Expert Feature Lyerly Spongberg, Certified Divorce Coach, Mediation Coach, Co-Parenting Specialist
In an insightful interview, Lyerly Spongberg, a Certified Divorce Coach, shares her expertise in navigating divorce challenges. She emphasizes proactive strategies for emotional clarity and co-parenting, highlighting the importance of support for individuals facing such life transitions. Keywords: divorce, coaching, mediation, co-parenting, support.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Valerie Jones, Life Coach, Author, Podcaster & Speaker
In an inspiring conversation, Valerie Jones, a Divorce Professional and Life Coach, discusses the transformative journey through her own divorce. She emphasizes self-advocacy, personal growth, and the power of making empowered choices after significant life changes, encouraging others to embrace their true selves.
Fortune Teller
We made you a fortune teller because we can pretend it’s middle school again but leave all the bad parts in the past.
Peaceful Parenting: 5 Tips to Stay Grounded When Styles Clash
Peaceful Parenting: 5 Tips to Stay Grounded When Styles Clash by Andra Davidson of Better than Before Divorce
Letter from the Editor: The Cruelest Month (That Isn't)
April Letter from the Editor
April has a reputation. T.S. Eliot called it the cruelest month — and if you're navigating divorce, you might be inclined to agree. But here's what I've come to think: April isn't cruel. It's just honest. And right now, honesty is exactly what you need.
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Hey Olivia: Am I Allowed to Ask for Help Starting Over?
When you’re divorcing and staring at your bank app, it can feel like the floor is dropping out from under you. You’re not lazy, you’re not behind—you’re in survival mode, trying to keep everyone fed and the legal plates spinning.
Divorce 101: A Is for Alimony (and April)
April is when the financial reality of divorce starts to feel very real. So let's talk about alimony. It's not a punishment or a reward — it's a practical tool designed to address financial imbalance created during the marriage. Understanding it doesn't make you greedy or difficult. It makes you prepared. And preparation is one of the most powerful forms of self-care during divorce.
Jenny Says So: “What Happened?”
Divorce makes you a subject. Suddenly everyone wanted the story — neighbors, relatives, the well-meaning acquaintance sliding into your DMs. And every time someone asks, it's like being pulled back into the worst chapter and forced to summarize it in 30 seconds.
You're not obligated to satisfy curiosity in order to be "nice." Polite doesn't mean porous. You don't owe a recap of your pain to earn your place in the room.
The Settlement Looked Fair Until Taxes Got Involved
The Settlement Looked Fair Until Taxes Got Involved by Donna Cates, CDFA
The Divorce Dilemma: How I Knew My Marriage Was Over
The Divorce Dilemma: How I Knew My Marriage Was Over by Carrie Mead of Carrie Mead, LCPC
The BIFF Method: How to Communicate Effectively During Divorce
Learn how to use the BIFF Method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) to communicate effectively with your ex during divorce—without losing your peace.
The Ultimate Post-Divorce Name Change Checklist: Everything to Update When You Change Your Name
Changing your name after divorce? Here’s the ultimate checklist of everything to update — from your Social Security card and bank accounts to your LinkedIn profile and website.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario: What to Do If Your Paycheck Doesn’t Hit Your Bank Account
Paycheck missing during divorce? Learn what to do first, who to call, and how to protect your income if your direct deposit doesn’t hit your account.
What Happens If the Divorce Petitioner Misses the First Court Hearing?
What happens if the divorce petitioner misses the first hearing? Courts may reschedule, move forward without them, or take their absence into account—especially in custody decisions. Learn what steps to take and how to protect your children’s best interests. Fresh Starts has family law and co-parenting experts to help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce.
What AI Is Not Telling You About Divorce
What AI Is Not Telling You About Divorce by Lisa Happ of Lisa Happ Coaching
Divorce Guide: 10 Questions to Ask Your Tax Accountant During Your Divorce
Divorce isn’t just an emotional journey—it’s a financial one, too. From filing status changes to potential implications for alimony, child support, and property division, it’s essential to understand how your divorce will affect your tax obligations. We’ll explore 10 crucial questions to ask your tax accountant during your divorce, why they matter, and how they can help you plan for a stable financial future.