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What Is Discernment Counseling—and Is It the Right Next Step?
Wondering if discernment counseling is the right next step when divorce is on the table? Learn what it is, how it works, and your options moving forward.
Leadership and Integrity Skills, and Giving Credit Where It's Due
Leadership and Integrity Skills, and Giving Credit Where It's Due by Lorraine Connell founder of Peers not Fears, Teen Leadership Coach
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario – I’m Being Asked to Sign Papers I Don’t Understand
Being pressured to sign divorce papers? Divorce Coach Allison McFadden explains what you should never sign without review and how to protect your rights.
Will a Government Shutdown Slow Down or Impact My Divorce?
Wondering if a government shutdown will affect your divorce? Learn how shutdowns impact courts, finances, and timelines—and whether to pause your divorce.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario: What to Do If You Suspect Your Spouse Is Talking to a Divorce Lawyer
Overheard your spouse talking to a divorce lawyer? Learn the first steps to take, how to prepare financially, and which professionals to consult.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario: What to Do If Your Paycheck Doesn’t Hit Your Bank Account
Paycheck missing during divorce? Learn what to do first, who to call, and how to protect your income if your direct deposit doesn’t hit your account.
Is It Normal to Have a Crush on Your Divorce Attorney?
Wondering if it’s normal to have a crush on your divorce attorney? Learn why it happens, the psychology behind it, and how to handle these feelings with care.
When “Bad Behavior” Is a Leadership Test—for Teens and Adults
When “Bad Behavior” Is a Leadership Test—for Teens and Adults by Lorraine Connell founder of Peers not Fears, Teen Leadership Coach
Should We Stay Together for the Kids? A Parent’s Guide to Divorce vs. Staying Married
Should you stay together for the kids? Learn the pros and cons, effects on children, and expert answers to FAQs about divorce vs. staying in an unhappy marriage.
Divorce Mediation: How to Prepare Your Non-Negotiables (Especially as a Stay-at-Home Parent)
Preparing for divorce mediation? Learn how to identify and protect your non-negotiables—custody, housing, finances—especially as a stay-at-home parent.
How to Explain Emotional and Verbal Abuse to Your Divorce Lawyer (So They Can Protect Your Kids)
Learn how to explain emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse to your divorce lawyer. Translate household patterns into legal-ready examples to protect your kids.
How to Rebuild Financially After Divorce: One Key Step to Start Strong
Wondering how to rebuild financially after divorce? Learn the first steps to take—budgeting, accounts, credit, and clarity—for stability and freedom.
What Counts as “Regular” Child Support Expenses vs. Extras?
What does child support actually cover? Learn which expenses are considered “regular” support (housing, food, clothing, basics) versus “extras” like sports, medical bills, and college costs that parents may split by percentage. Fresh Starts has co-parenting and financial experts who can help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce for compassionate guidance.
Can You Be Forced to Change Your Last Name After Divorce?
Can your ex force you to change your last name after divorce? No—the decision is yours. You can usually return to your maiden name or a former name through the divorce decree. For a completely new name, a separate petition is required. Fresh Starts has legal and emotional experts to help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce for guidance.
Tips for Filing an Uncontested Divorce When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed
Filing for an uncontested divorce can feel overwhelming, especially with kids and a home to sell. Learn what uncontested divorce means, the steps for filing, and tips for managing stress along the way. Fresh Starts has mediators and attorneys who can help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce for compassionate guidance.
How Do You File for Divorce in New York If You Have Kids and a House?
Wondering how to file for divorce in New York when you have kids and a house? Learn the basics: residency requirements, filing fees, whether you need a lawyer, and how custody and property are handled. Fresh Starts has attorneys and mediators in New York who can help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce for step-by-step guidance.
What to Do If Your Credit Card Is Maxed Out Before Divorce
What if your credit card is maxed out before divorce and you can’t pay it down? Learn why marital debt is often shared, how to document family expenses, and what steps you can take right now if your credit score is too low for a balance transfer. Fresh Starts has financial and legal experts who can help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce for practical guidance.
Why You Need a CDFA During Divorce
Divorce isn’t just emotional—it’s financial. A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) helps you understand settlement options, taxes, and long-term impacts so you can make smart decisions and save money. At Fresh Starts, we’ve vetted trusted CDFAs who combine expertise with compassion to guide you toward a secure and confident fresh start.
What Is the Income Shares Model for Child Support?
The Income Shares Model for child support ensures kids receive the same financial support they would if parents lived together. By combining both parents’ incomes and dividing costs proportionally, this fair approach is now used in most U.S. states. Learn how it works and whether your state follows this model.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, My ex is threatening to move the kids out of state!”
Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi explains what to do if relocation is threatened during divorce. Learn your legal rights, when to file an emergency motion, and how to protect your children while keeping communication calm and clear. What if your ex threatens to move the kids out of state? Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi explains custody relocation laws and urgent steps you can take.