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Hey Olivia: Where Do I Even Begin the Divorce Process?
Olivia responds to a reader who’s been living with daily rejection for years—trying to stay for the kids and the cost of life, while hoping to avoid attorneys if possible. With warmth and clarity, Olivia offers a gentle, beginner-friendly roadmap: start with safety, quietly gather key documents, understand your real numbers, explore non-court options, and take one small next step (with Fresh Starts Registry there to help you map it all out).
Jenny Says So: The Divorce Announcement Dilemma
You’re not obligated to make a public “divorce announcement” — you can share quietly, selectively, and in whatever format feels safest. Jenny offers a simple boundary-first approach that reduces emotional labor and keeps you from over-explaining. Using the VASE Method (Validate, Acknowledge, Support, Express), you can tell the truth with warmth, clarity, and a built-in “no details” line that protects your peace.
Divorce 101: F Is for Financial Disclosure (and February)
February has a reputation for being about love—roses, chocolates, grand gestures. But in the world of divorce, February often marks something quieter and far more practical: clarity. That’s why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, F is for Financial Disclosure.
Divorce 101 A–Z: The Plain-Language Guide Everyone Deserves
Most divorce resources assume you already speak the language—leaving you overwhelmed when what you really need is clarity. Divorce 101 A–Z was created to explain divorce one letter at a time, using plain, compassionate language that removes fear instead of adding to it. In this episode, we share how this 26-part mini-series breaks down common terms and experiences without jargon, pressure, or worst-case spirals. Think of it as the Schoolhouse Rock of divorce: short, supportive lessons designed to meet you exactly where you are and help you start fresh.
What Is a Divorce Resource Consult—and Why It’s the Best Place to Start
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by divorce—or quietly wondering where to even begin—you’re not alone. Divorce Resource Consults were created to offer a calm, judgment-free starting point when everything feels heavy and unclear. In this episode, we explain how these free, confidential 15-minute calls with Olivia Howell provide clarity, direction, and real support without pressure or a sales pitch. Because divorce isn’t just legal—it’s deeply human, and you deserve a steady place to land as you start fresh.
The Dreaded “Where’s Dad” Question
When a simple question like “Where’s dad?” turns a public moment into an emotional landmine, what’s the polite way to respond? Jenny shares calm, confidence-building language that protects your privacy, models emotional safety for your kids, and reminds us that good etiquette never requires overexplaining.
Expert Feature Oona Metz, Therapist
In an insightful interview, Oona Metz, a dedicated Therapist, discusses her passion for empowering women through divorce at Fresh Starts, exemplifying how personal experience fuels her commitment to support and encourage resilience during life transitions. Keywords include therapist, divorce support, women's empowerment, and personal growth.
Here’s How Working With a Sex Coach Can Help You with Myisha Battle, Sex Coach
In an insightful discussion, Myisha Battle, a skilled Sex Coach, reveals how her expertise aids clients during divorce, helping them navigate intimate challenges, foster self-discovery, and build healthy relationships. Her compassionate approach debunks misconceptions about coaching while empowering individuals to embrace their sexuality and dating skills effectively.
Expert Feature: Donna Cates, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, Chartered Retirement Planning Counselor℠, Wealth Strategist & Founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions and Navigating Divorce
In an engaging conversation, Donna Cates, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, shares her expertise in guiding women through financial challenges during divorce. Donna emphasizes the importance of empowerment, strategic planning, and emotional support, helping clients transform their financial lives and achieve lasting stability and confidence.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Kelsey Boucher, Divorce Coach
In an illuminating interview, Kelsey Boucher, a Divorce Coach, shares her personal journey and professional insights on navigating divorce. She emphasizes the importance of resilience and transformation, helping clients rebuild their lives with clarity and purpose. Discover how her unique approach supports individuals in their fresh starts.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario – I’m Being Asked to Sign Papers I Don’t Understand
Being pressured to sign divorce papers? Divorce Coach Allison McFadden explains what you should never sign without review and how to protect your rights.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario: What to Do If You Suspect Your Spouse Is Talking to a Divorce Lawyer
Overheard your spouse talking to a divorce lawyer? Learn the first steps to take, how to prepare financially, and which professionals to consult.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario: What to Do If Your Paycheck Doesn’t Hit Your Bank Account
Paycheck missing during divorce? Learn what to do first, who to call, and how to protect your income if your direct deposit doesn’t hit your account.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, My ex is threatening to move the kids out of state!”
Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi explains what to do if relocation is threatened during divorce. Learn your legal rights, when to file an emergency motion, and how to protect your children while keeping communication calm and clear. What if your ex threatens to move the kids out of state? Family Law Attorney Jolee Vacchi explains custody relocation laws and urgent steps you can take.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, my spouse emptied out the children’s college accounts!”
What if your spouse emptied the kids’ college fund? Divorce expert Donna Cates, CDFA, explains your rights, recovery options, and steps to protect assets. Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Donna Cates shares what to do if college savings vanish in divorce. Learn the legal implications, how to protect remaining funds, and how to document evidence so you can safeguard your children’s future.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, my soon-to-be-ex-spouse changed the locks on our marital residence and I can’t get in!”
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenario – Help! My ex changed the locks. If you find yourself locked out during divorce, you’re not alone. Family Law Attorney Jessica Zadjura explains your rights, safe next steps, and what not to do if your ex changes the locks on the marital home so you can protect yourself and your belongings.
Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios: “Help, I was just served with divorce papers and I have no idea what to do!”
Being served with divorce papers can feel overwhelming and leave you wondering what to do next. In this Divorce Happens: Survival Scenarios guide, divorce mediator and attorney Mardi Chadwick-Balcom shares expert advice on the first 24 hours after being served, which documents to gather, and how to respond with intention. Get clear, compassionate guidance to navigate this stressful moment with confidence.
Divorce Guide: Divorce and Retirement: What No One Tells You About Splitting IRAs and 401(k)s
Divorce can dramatically impact your retirement savings, especially IRAs and 401(k)s. Learn the essentials of dividing these assets through Transfer Incidents and QDROs, understand tax implications, and avoid common pitfalls. This comprehensive guide explains everything you need to know to protect your financial future during divorce and ensure long-term stability.
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask a Relationship Coach While Navigating Your Divorce
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a relationship coach while navigating your divorce to find the right support for healing, rebuilding confidence, and improving communication. Learn how their experience, coaching strategies, and emotional sensitivity can help you move forward stronger and more self-aware.
Divorce Guide: 10 essential questions to ask a children's therapist while navigating your divorce
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a children's therapist while navigating divorce to ensure your child receives the emotional support they need. Learn how their experience, therapeutic approach, and ability to handle co-parenting dynamics can provide a safe space for your child to heal and grow.