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Book Spotlight: Thriving Through Divorce: Your Guide to Emotional Healing, Empowerment, and Starting Over
Book Spotlight: Thriving Through Divorce: Your Guide to Emotional Healing, Empowerment, and Starting Over by Shauna Warden, Divorce Coach of Shauna Warden Coaching
Podcast Spotlight: The Divorce Chronicles
Podcast Spotlight: The Divorce Chronicles by Shauna Warden, Divorce Coach of Shauna Warden Coaching
Book Spotlight: Contemplating Divorce
Book Spotlight: You 2.0: Divorce, a better way forward. by Justin Millrad, Divorce Coach of Reclaim & Reboot Transformational Divorce Coaching
Book Spotlight: Contemplating Divorce
Book Spotlight: Contemplating Divorce by Susan Pease Gadoua, Therapist & Divorce Educator of Changing Marriage Institute
Podcast Spotlight: The Conscious Divorce Podcast
Podcast Spotlight: The Conscious Divorce Podcast by Justin Millrad, Divorce Coach of Reclaim & Reboot Transformational Divorce Coaching
Book Spotlight: You 2.0: Divorce, a better way forward.
Book Spotlight: You 2.0: Divorce, a better way forward. by Justin Millrad, Divorce Coach of Reclaim & Reboot Transformational Divorce Coaching
Book Spotlight: Unhooked
Book Spotlight: Unhooked by Jessica Knight, Divorce Coach of High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Thankful-ish: A Gratitude Mad Lib
Need a little distraction? Our madlib is here for you, friend.
Hey Olivia: How to Ask a Loving Sister for Space After Divorce
Your sister is texting daily, dropping by unannounced, and asking if youโre okay a hundred times a week. It comes from love, but itโs a lot. Olivia explains why needing quiet isnโt a betrayal of that love, and how one honest, gentle text can protect the relationship instead of hurting it.
December in the Divorce Happens Community
This November, the Divorce Happens Community is digging into "Who Showed Up," a theme about the friendships that surprised us, the ones that quietly disappeared, and everything in between.
Divorce 101: N Is for Negotiation (and November)
November is a month of tension and transition, which makes it a fitting time to talk about negotiation, the process where much of divorce actually gets decided. Whether it happens through attorneys, in mediation, or at a settlement conference, negotiation isnโt about winning or losing. Itโs about reaching workable agreements and keeping decisions in the hands of the people who will live with them. Preparation, clear priorities, and patience matter more than force.
Jenny Says So: When Family Trashes Your Ex in Front of the Kids
A readerโs mom and sibling keep criticizing her ex in front of the kids, and they think theyโre helping. In this monthโs Jenny Says So, Jenny explains how to draw a firm line without debating your exโs merits, and offers a script for the pushback thatโs sure to follow.
November in the Divorce Happens Community
This November, the Divorce Happens Community is digging into "Who Showed Up," a theme about the friendships that surprised us, the ones that quietly disappeared, and everything in between.
Hey Olivia: How do I explain my divorce to my kids without affecting how they feel about their dad?
A reader wonders how to communicate her divorce to her kids without her explanation affecting how they see their dad.
You Survived the Divorce. Now Comes the Part No One Talks About.
You Survived the Divorce. Now Comes the Part No One Talks About by Joanna Green
Jenny Says So: Weddings After Divorce
A newly divorced reader writes in anxious about attending a wedding where her ex will also be a guest โ unsure about dating logistics, seating, whether to alert the couple, and how to act if she crosses paths with her ex, all while trying not to make the couple's day about her situation.
Divorce 101: O Is for Orders (and October)
October is a month of structure. Routines settle, schedules solidify, and life begins to operate with more predictability after the flux of summer and early fall. In divorce, that same need for structure is often met through ordersโthe legally binding instructions that bring stability while everything else is still being sorted out.
Podcast Spotlight: Single-Parenting with Connection (NOT Perfection)
Podcast Spotlight: Single-Parenting with Connection (NOT Perfection) | Hosted by Gila Z Reckess, PhD
Hey Olivia: A Coworker Just Told Me She's Getting Divorced. What Do I Say?
A reader wants to respond with compassion โ and asks how to show up for someone she doesn't know very well.
Divorce 101: S Is for Separation (and September)
Framed around September's return to routine, this piece unpacks "separation" as far more than an informal in-between โ a transition that can carry real legal and financial consequences (from property division dates to support calculations) while also marking the emotionally hardest phase of divorce.