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Build Your Perfect Saturday
There's a reason the perfect-Saturday trick works better than the standard birthday advice. A Saturday doesn't ask you to perform. It has no agenda built into it, no candles, no one waiting to see whether you look happy enough. It's just a day that's yours to shape — which is exactly what a birthday is supposed to be and almost never feels like, especially in the middle of a fresh start. So instead of trying to engineer a Capital-B Birthday, you build the most unremarkable, deeply satisfying Saturday you can imagine, and then you go live in it. Maybe that's a long walk and a good coffee and absolutely no plans. Maybe it's a houseful of people and something cooking all afternoon. There's no right version, and that's the point: you're not measuring up to anything. You're just designing one good day, on purpose, around what actually makes you feel like yourself. The worksheet below is here to help you find out what that is.
Expert Feature Anna Howerton, Relationship Coach
In an engaging interview, Anna Howerton, a dedicated Relationship Coach, shares her journey in helping individuals navigate the challenging phases of divorce and relationships. Her insights emphasize the importance of clarity, empowerment, and personal growth, making her approach both relatable and impactful in guiding clients toward their fresh starts.
Expert Feature Ron Platt, National Association for Single and Divorced Families
In an insightful conversation, Ron Platt, of National Association for Single and Divorced Families, reveals the significance of support systems during life transitions such as divorce. He emphasizes integrating advocacy and financial security, highlighting how NASDF uniquely equips clients with essential resources to facilitate smoother transitions and enhance their well-being.
A Gray Rainbow Divorce: Coming Out and Divorcing Midlife
At 49, after twenty-nine years married, Kristen made a decision that changed everything — and finally let her become herself.
Hey Olivia: I Thought I'd Feel Relieved. Instead I've Been Crying for Days.
A reader wonders why signing the divorce papers broke her open — and asks the question so many of us are afraid to ask out loud.
Divorce 101: J Is for Judgment (and July)
Your July cheat sheet for understanding what a divorce judgment actually means — minus the legalese, plus the emotional reality nobody warns you about.
Jenny Says So: “But Divorce Is So Hard on the Kids…”
You don't owe strangers your justification. You can be compassionate without accepting shame — and protect your kids without performing your pain for the public.
Here’s How Working With a Career Transition Specialist Can Help You with Rachel Spekman
In an insightful interview, Rachel Spekman, a Career Transition Specialist, discusses her role in guiding clients through the divorce process. She emphasizes the importance of addressing both emotional and professional challenges to help individuals rebuild their identity and achieve fulfilling careers post-divorce.
Hey Olivia: What Actually Happens to Family Heirlooms When You Get Divorced?
A reader wants to know how divorce handles the things that matter most — and discovers this is one of the most emotionally complicated questions nobody prepares you for.
Divorce 101: J Is for Joint Custody (and June)
Joint custody is one of the most common — and most misunderstood — concepts in divorce. It doesn't automatically mean a 50/50 split. It's not a scorecard. And it's not a measure of parental worth. This piece breaks down what joint custody actually means, why the distinction between legal and physical custody matters, and how to think about it as a framework — not a competition.
Jenny Says So: The Post-Divorce Set-Up Parade
What do you do when everyone wants to set you up — but you're still figuring out who you are post-divorce? In this column, Jenny tackles the pressure to date before you're ready, why your timeline isn't anyone else's business, and the exact scripts to shut it down with grace. Kindness doesn't require compliance.
Expert Feature David Fein, Divorce Mediator and Family Law Attorney
In an insightful interview, David Fein, a Divorce Mediator and Family Law Attorney, discusses his unique approach to helping families navigate the complexities of divorce. With a focus on structured solutions, he empowers clients to transition smoothly, prioritizing their long-term well-being and harmony.
Hey Olivia: I'm Watching Myself Sink Into Debt in Real Time
A reader asks how to survive a high-conflict divorce when her ex has all the resources — and all the leverage.
What People Don’t Understand about working with a High-conflict divorce coach with Rina Groeneveld
In an insightful discussion, Rina Groeneveld, a High-conflict Divorce Coach, reveals the overlooked complexities of divorce. She emphasizes that the journey involves emotional turmoil and legal challenges, discouraging simplistic views that divorce is a clean break. Instead, she encourages strategic communication and thorough documentation.
5 Tips From a Divorce Professional with Kristina St. Cyr, Certified Divorce Coach
In a heartfelt interview, Kristina St. Cyr, a Certified Divorce Coach, shares five essential tips to navigate the complexities of divorce. She emphasizes emotional clarity, prioritizing self-care, and the importance of focused decision-making for individuals facing this significant life transition.
So You Want to Be a Registry Fairy
A Registry Fairy is exactly what it sounds like: a person who occasionally receives a Fresh Starts registry link and decides, on their own terms, whether to purchase something from it. No formal training. No monthly commitment. No pressure. You sign up, you get added to the list, and when we have a registry to share, we'll send it your way.
The Registry Fairy: A Small Act That Lands Hard
The Registry Fairy started as something we just quietly did. We kept a list of people who wanted to be that stranger, and when registries came in, we supported them. No fanfare, no formal launch. Just people taking care of other people in a real and tangible way.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Sandhya Gopal, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)
In an insightful conversation, Sandhya Gopal, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), shares her journey of navigating divorce and the financial complexities that arise. She emphasizes the importance of financial clarity and emotional stability, highlighting strategies for making informed decisions post-divorce to foster personal growth and independence.
Expert Feature Lyerly Spongberg, Certified Divorce Coach, Mediation Coach, Co-Parenting Specialist
In an insightful interview, Lyerly Spongberg, a Certified Divorce Coach, shares her expertise in navigating divorce challenges. She emphasizes proactive strategies for emotional clarity and co-parenting, highlighting the importance of support for individuals facing such life transitions. Keywords: divorce, coaching, mediation, co-parenting, support.
I’m Divorced and a Divorce Professional—Here’s What I Learned with Valerie Jones, Life Coach, Author, Podcaster & Speaker
In an inspiring conversation, Valerie Jones, a Divorce Professional and Life Coach, discusses the transformative journey through her own divorce. She emphasizes self-advocacy, personal growth, and the power of making empowered choices after significant life changes, encouraging others to embrace their true selves.