How long does mediation take compared to litigation?

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The time difference between mediation and litigation is often dramatic. Here’s what you can generally expect:

Mediation Timeline

  • Typically takes 2 to 6 months depending on:

    • Complexity of assets and custody arrangements

    • Willingness of both parties to cooperate

    • Scheduling availability of the mediator

  • Sessions are usually 1–2 hours each, with multiple sessions scheduled a few weeks apart.

  • If both parties are prepared and cooperative, it can sometimes be resolved in as few as 3–4 sessions.

Faster if:

  • Both parties are organized and willing to compromise.

  • There are fewer contested issues (e.g., no major disagreements on custody or property).

Longer if:

  • There is conflict over major decisions (e.g., child custody or division of assets).

  • Additional experts are required (e.g., financial advisors, real estate evaluators).

Litigation Timeline

  • Typically takes 9 months to 2+ years, sometimes longer.

  • Includes multiple stages:

    • Filing and Serving Papers: 1–2 months

    • Discovery Process: 3–6 months (can be longer if assets are hidden or complex)

    • Motions and Hearings: 1–6 months

    • Trial: If you go to trial, it may add several more months or even over a year.

    • Post-Trial Motions and Appeals: Can add additional time if one party contests the ruling.

Faster if:

  • There is minimal conflict and both parties are cooperative.

  • Financials are straightforward and well-documented.

Longer if:

  • There are disputes over custody, finances, or hidden assets.

  • One party is uncooperative or files multiple motions.

Why Mediation Is So Much Faster:

  • Fewer court appearances: You meet privately with a mediator instead of waiting for court dates.

  • Less paperwork and bureaucracy: Decisions are made in real-time, not scheduled around crowded court calendars.

  • Direct communication: Both parties speak directly instead of going through layers of legal procedures.

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