The Divorce Announcement
Fresh Starts Registry and Divorce.com are taking back our divorce stories this June with the Divorce Announcement. Whether you're considering announcing your divorce or ready to get the word out there, we'll be supporting you with a podcast season, education, and lots of content this June to celebrate the empowerment of The Divorce Announcement.
Check Out the Podcast Episodes!
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to crisis communication strategist Molly McPherson, about the trend of announcing divorces on social media. We discuss why people, both celebrities and regular individuals, are choosing to be open about their divorces on social media. Molly provides tips and strategies for announcing a divorce publicly, emphasizing the importance of considering what's at stake and framing the message in a way that focuses on collaboration and a positive future.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to mom, writer, and professor Kelly McMasters. Kelly McMasters, author of The Leaving Season, discusses her experience with divorce and how she announced it to the world.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to mom, actress, and podcast host Monika Casey. Monika talks about how she de-activated her social media during her divorce, however felt dis-empowered when her divorce announcement was reveled in TMZ. We talked about how to handle your divorce announcement when the narrative spins out of control, and how to empower yourself as you re-write the narrative of your divorce.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to comedian, actor, and father Tom Arnold. Tom Arnold talks about the difference in announcing a divorce pre and post the advent of social media, having your divorce in the tabloids, and why he wanted to talk about his divorce publicly. We chatted about his becoming a single dad and his advice for other single dads; and we talked about how to comport yourself when there is a narrative being crafted about you by other people.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to three Fresh Starts Experts about their perspective, helpful advice, and how they support clients with telling people in their life about their divorce. This episode features Lisa Happ, Dr. Anita Smith, and Jason Scriven.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Christina Bailey, of Baby Bailey Mama Drama. Christina Bailey shares her experience of announcing her divorce from her wife on social media. She emphasizes the importance of owning the announcement and being authentic.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Jordan Reid. Jordan Reid is the founder of Ramshackle Glam, as well as the author of The Big Activity Book for Divorced People (and more).
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Jessica Castro; Jessica was married on the reality TV show Married at First Sight and talks about how she announced her divorce on social media and the response from people.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Emily Farris. Emily is a writer and the author of I'll Just Be Five More Minutes: And Other Tales from My ADHD Brain; Emily shared her divorce announcement in an essay, “I Made My Husband the Hero of My Memoir; Then My Marriage Ended” on Cup of Jo.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Rachel Sobel. Rachel shares her experience of announcing her divorce and offers advice on how to handle the divorce announcement. She also provides tips for crafting a divorce announcement and navigating social media while going through a divorce.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Jolie Steele. Jolie shares her experience of announcing her divorce on social media and to friends and family. She emphasizes the importance of setting the tone and framework for the announcement, particularly when children are involved. She also mentions the value of a divorce registry for receiving support.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Scarlett Longstreet. Scarlett, a writer and mother of three, shares her experience of announcing her divorce to a larger community. She discusses the importance of providing clarity and reducing assumptions by making a formal divorce announcement.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, we talked to Liz Pharo. Liz Pharo, CEO and founder of Divorce.com, discusses how she announced her divorce and the importance of divorce announcements. Liz highlights how Divorce.com makes the divorce process easier by offering a collaborative approach, assigning a case manager, scheduling mediation sessions, and producing paperwork.
On this episode of The Divorce Announcement Season, Olivia Dreizen Howell, the CEO and co-founder of Fresh Starts Registry, talks about her own divorce announcement and why/how this Divorce Announcement season came to be.
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A parent asks how to handle the ex's new partner suddenly appearing at school concerts, soccer games, and kid birthday parties — under the watchful eyes of other parents — without looking bitter or pretending to be a happy blended family. Jenny's rule is "neutral grace": be civil, brief, and kid-centered with a simple script and an exit strategy, then let yourself feel it all afterward.
What do you do when everyone wants to set you up — but you're still figuring out who you are post-divorce? In this column, Jenny tackles the pressure to date before you're ready, why your timeline isn't anyone else's business, and the exact scripts to shut it down with grace. Kindness doesn't require compliance.
Divorce makes you a subject. Suddenly everyone wanted the story — neighbors, relatives, the well-meaning acquaintance sliding into your DMs. And every time someone asks, it's like being pulled back into the worst chapter and forced to summarize it in 30 seconds.
You're not obligated to satisfy curiosity in order to be "nice." Polite doesn't mean porous. You don't owe a recap of your pain to earn your place in the room.
Shared friend group post-divorce? You’re allowed to ask for a softer landing. It’s not rude to request some events without your ex—or at least a heads-up for smaller gatherings. Lead with clarity + generosity: you’re not demanding, you’re helping friends host thoughtfully. If they can’t accommodate, opt out guilt-free—with love and manners.
You’re not obligated to make a public “divorce announcement” — you can share quietly, selectively, and in whatever format feels safest. Jenny offers a simple boundary-first approach that reduces emotional labor and keeps you from over-explaining. Using the VASE Method (Validate, Acknowledge, Support, Express), you can tell the truth with warmth, clarity, and a built-in “no details” line that protects your peace.
How to Write a Divorce Announcement and Helpful Phrases to Use; how to write a divorce announcement for social media; how to tell your family and friends about your divorce; helpful phrases to announce your divorce.
How to tell your child’s friends’ parents you’re getting divorced (and why you need to tell them); why you need to tell your child’s friends’ parents that you’re getting divorced, how to tell your child’s friends’ parents you’re getting divorced, with a sample text.
How to tell your doctor that you’re getting divorced (and why you need to tell them); why you need to tell your doctor you’re getting divorced, how to tell your doctor you’re getting divorced, with a sample email and text.
How to tell your child’s pediatrician you’re getting divorced (and why you need to tell them); why you need to tell your child’s pediatrician you’re getting divorced, how to tell your child’s pediatrician you’re getting divorced, with a sample conversation starter.
How to tell your boss that you’re getting divorced (and why you need to tell them); why you need to tell your boss you’re getting divorced, how to tell your boss you’re getting divorced, with a sample email and text.
How to tell your child’s teacher you’re getting divorced (and why you need to tell them); why you need to tell your child’s teacher you’re getting divorced, how to tell your child’s teacher you’re getting divorced, with a sample email and text.
We are thrilled to be partnering with Divorce.com for a new campaign: The Divorce Announcement!
We're taking back our divorce stories this June with the Divorce Announcement.
A divorce announcement is a statement made by a person to share their decision to transition to divorce with their loved ones and wider community. While divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, announcing it can be a powerful act of self-empowerment. Here are 3 reasons to write a divorce announcement.
A divorce announcement is a formal or informal statement made by people to inform their friends, family, and acquaintances about their decision to transition to divorce. By proactively sharing their decision with others, individuals can take control of the conversation surrounding their divorce and prevent rumors or misinformation from spreading.
Simple Scripts to Support You
(While you craft your divorce announcement)
How to tell your babysitter that you’re getting divorced; how to tell your babysitter that you are getting a divorce.
How to tell your hair stylist that you’re getting divorced; how to tell your hair stylist that you are getting a divorce.
How to tell your neighbors that you’re getting divorced; how to tell your acquaintances and neighbors that you are getting a divorce.
How to tell your financial/tax advisor that you’re getting divorced; how to tell your tax person or financial advisor that you’re getting a divorce.
How to tell your clients that you’re getting divorced; as a freelancer, how can I tell my clients I am getting divorced. How do I tell my clients I am getting divorced?
How to tell your colleagues that you’re getting divorced; how to tell the people you work with that you’re getting divorced. How to tell work friends about your divorce.
How to tell your boss that you’re getting divorced; how can I tell my boss that I’m getting a divorce? A script for telling your boss that you’re getting a divorce.
How to tell your doctor that you’re getting divorced; how to tell your medical practitioner that you’re getting divorced. How to tell your doctor or dentist that you are getting a divorce.
How to tell the parents of your children’s friends that you’re getting divorced; what to say to your children’s friends’ parents about your divorce.
How to tell your children’s therapist that you’re getting divorced; what to say to your children’s therapist when you get divorced. How to tell your child’s therapist that you are getting divorced.
How to tell your children’s pediatrician that you’re getting divorced; what to say to your children’s pediatrician when you get divorced. How to tell your child’s doctor that you are getting divorced.
How to tell your children’s teachers that you’re getting a divorce; how to make a divorce announcement to your children’s teachers; how to tell your children’s school that you are getting a divorce.
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This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!