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The Biggest Misconceptions About Divorce, According to a Divorce Professional
The Biggest Misconceptions About Divorce, According to a Divorce Professional by Isabel Sanchez, Financial Coach of MES Financial Coaching, LLC.
Thankful-ish: A Gratitude Mad Lib
Need a little distraction? Our madlib is here for you, friend.
Hey Olivia: How to Ask a Loving Sister for Space After Divorce
Your sister is texting daily, dropping by unannounced, and asking if youโre okay a hundred times a week. It comes from love, but itโs a lot. Olivia explains why needing quiet isnโt a betrayal of that love, and how one honest, gentle text can protect the relationship instead of hurting it.
December in the Divorce Happens Community
This November, the Divorce Happens Community is digging into "Who Showed Up," a theme about the friendships that surprised us, the ones that quietly disappeared, and everything in between.
Divorce 101: N Is for Negotiation (and November)
November is a month of tension and transition, which makes it a fitting time to talk about negotiation, the process where much of divorce actually gets decided. Whether it happens through attorneys, in mediation, or at a settlement conference, negotiation isnโt about winning or losing. Itโs about reaching workable agreements and keeping decisions in the hands of the people who will live with them. Preparation, clear priorities, and patience matter more than force.
Jenny Says So: When Family Trashes Your Ex in Front of the Kids
A readerโs mom and sibling keep criticizing her ex in front of the kids, and they think theyโre helping. In this monthโs Jenny Says So, Jenny explains how to draw a firm line without debating your exโs merits, and offers a script for the pushback thatโs sure to follow.
Letter from the Editor: Thank You, In Practice
November Letter from the Editor
November asks us to feel grateful, which can be a lot to ask in the middle of a divorce. In this monthโs letter, Editor in Chief Jenny Dreizen suggests a gentler approach: noticing one small thing that went okay, and letting that be enough. She also thanks the experts, supporters and everyday helpers who make this work possible.
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Podcast Spotlight: The Families First Podcast hosted by Ron Platt
Podcast Spotlight: The Families First Podcast from โRon Platt of National Association for Single and Divorced Families
When a Longtime Friend Goes Silent After You Announce a Divorce
A close friend going silent right after learning about your divorce is a real, distinct grief. Here's how to think through whether to reach out one more time or let it go.
Co-Parenting Doesnโt Just Need Better Communication. It Needs Better Thinking.
Co-Parenting Doesnโt Just Need Better Communication. It Needs Better Thinking. by Trina A. Nudson, JD, LBSW of BeH2Oยฎ and BeAlignedโข
Falling Leaves and Failing Marriages
Falling Leaves and Failing Marriages by Kimberly Lorah of Blossom Coaching
How My Business Became the Foundation of My Next Chapter
How My Business Became the Foundation of My Next Chapter by Joselyn Martinez of Balance Financial Solutions
Brief Lifeclass: Narcissistic Maneuvering 101
Brief Lifeclass: Narcissistic Maneuvering 101 by Stacey Sanderson of Sanderson Psychotherapy, Coaching and Consulting
Divorce Guide: 10 essential questions to ask a children's therapist while navigating your divorce
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a children's therapist while navigating divorce to ensure your child receives the emotional support they need. Learn how their experience, therapeutic approach, and ability to handle co-parenting dynamics can provide a safe space for your child to heal and grow.
Self-Filing for Divorce: How to Navigate DIY Divorce Without a Lawyer
If youโre ready to get divorced but canโt afford a lawyerโor simply want to handle the process on your ownโthereโs a powerful, low-cost option you might not know enough about: self-filing for divorce, also known as DIY divorce. With the right tools, resources, and guidance, many people successfully complete their divorce without legal representationโespecially when both spouses agree on the major issues like custody, support, and property division. This guide walks you through what DIY divorce is, why itโs a smart choice for many, and how to get started step by step.
What to consider when youโre considering divorce: everything you need to know about parenting plans
A well-thought-out parenting plan can provide stability, set expectations, and reduce conflict, helping your family adjust to this new chapter with as much ease as possible. Weโll explore what a parenting plan is, why itโs essential, and the key factors to consider when crafting one. From understanding legal requirements to addressing practical concerns like schedules, communication, and holidays, weโll guide you through the process step by step.