Olivia responds to a reader who’s been living with daily rejection for years—trying to stay for the kids and the cost of life, while hoping to avoid attorneys if possible. With warmth and clarity, Olivia offers a gentle, beginner-friendly roadmap: start with safety, quietly gather key documents, understand your real numbers, explore non-court options, and take one small next step (with Fresh Starts Registry there to help you map it all out).

You’re not obligated to make a public “divorce announcement” — you can share quietly, selectively, and in whatever format feels safest. Jenny offers a simple boundary-first approach that reduces emotional labor and keeps you from over-explaining. Using the VASE Method (Validate, Acknowledge, Support, Express), you can tell the truth with warmth, clarity, and a built-in “no details” line that protects your peace.

February has a reputation for being about love—roses, chocolates, grand gestures. But in the world of divorce, February often marks something quieter and far more practical: clarity. That’s why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, F is for Financial Disclosure.

10 Things to Know When Divorcing an Addict by Meredith Beardmore of Mend with Mere

February can feel like a month that’s constantly clearing its throat.

It’s short. It’s loud. It’s full of hearts and pink and messaging that assumes you have a “we” to celebrate. And if you’re in the middle of a divorce—or the tender, weird aftershocks of one—it can make you feel like you’re watching life through a window: everyone else paired up, everyone else certain, everyone else held.

Photo by Terrie Alfieri

In this insightful interview, Jessica Zadjura, a Parent Coordinator, sheds light on her vital role in divorce processes. She emphasizes the importance of conflict resolution, clear communication, and providing structured support for families navigating co-parenting challenges, ensuring a smoother transition for parents and children alike.

In an insightful discussion, Taylor Beck, a Divorce Coach, shares how she empowers clients through personal transitions. Her approach balances empathy and strategic action, guiding individuals toward clarity and strength as they navigate the complexities of divorce. Discover transformative insights to redefine your journey.

In an enlightening interview, Laura Lorber, an experienced mediator, shares five essential tips for navigating divorce, emphasizing proactive co-parenting and clear communication. Her insights aim to ease stress during this challenging transition, making the process more manageable for families. Discover strategies for a healthier divorce experience.

In an insightful interview, Meg Priest, a Divorce Professional, shares her personal journey through divorce. She discusses the emotional challenges, the importance of clarity, and her mission to provide clients with the guidance she wished she had during her own transition. Embrace your fresh start with integrity and self-trust!

Review Those Beneficiary Designations — Especially After Major Life Changes by Bridget Borel of Clairwell Financial Planning

Being pressured to sign divorce papers? Divorce Coach Allison McFadden explains what you should never sign without review and how to protect your rights.

What happens if your spouse drains bank accounts during divorce? Courts forbid dissipating assets, but it still happens. Learn why documentation matters, how your attorney can raise it in court, and why judges take financial manipulation seriously. Fresh Starts has divorce attorneys and financial experts to help. Download our free ebook What to Consider When You’re Considering Divorce.

Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a potential co-parenting coach to ensure successful communication and harmony post-divorce. Learn how their experience, conflict resolution skills, and approach to parenting plans can help create a smooth, child-focused co-parenting experience.

When your lawyer says, "Make a list of everything you want," it can feel overwhelming. Divorce is about more than paperwork — it's about protecting your future, your children’s stability, and your ability to rebuild. This guide breaks down exactly what to ask for in a divorce, why each item matters, and how to advocate for yourself clearly and confidently.

My Spouse Moved Out: how do I make this place feel like home again? by Holly Martins founder of Holly Martins, NJ Real Estate, Real Estate Agent

Divorce is a deeply personal and emotionally charged process, especially when children are involved. We rounded up 10 important questions about custody to ask your divorce lawyer, and explore the significance of asking these questions, as well as the reasons why doing so is essential in safeguarding your children's future and ensuring a fair and amicable parenting arrangement.