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What Is a CDFA — and Do You Need One for Your Divorce?
Most people navigating divorce know they need an attorney. Fewer know there's a financial specialist — separate from that attorney — whose entire job is to help you understand what your settlement is actually worth, now and ten years from now.
The Best Resources for Someone Going Through a Divorce
You don’t need to figure out divorce by yourself. Here’s a curated list of the resources that actually help — from finding the right professionals to rebuilding your home and your life.
How to Help a Friend Going Through Divorce
You don’t need to have the perfect words. You just need to show up, stop tiptoeing, and let them know they’re not doing this alone.
The Best Gifts for Someone Going Through a Divorce
When someone you love is going through a divorce, you want to help — but flowers feel empty and cash feels weird. Here's what actually makes a difference.
What Is a Divorce Therapist — and How Is That Different from a Regular Therapist?
Any therapist can help you process difficult emotions. But a therapist who specializes in divorce understands the specific grief, identity shifts, and co-parenting challenges that come with it.
What Is a Divorce Attorney — and When Do You Actually Need One?
A divorce attorney handles the legal side of ending a marriage. But not every divorce requires a full-service lawyer — and knowing the difference can save you thousands.
What Is a Divorce Mediator — and Is Mediation Right for You?
A divorce mediator is a neutral third party who helps you and your spouse reach agreements together — without going to court. It’s not for everyone, but when it works, it changes everything.
What Is a Divorce Coach — and Do You Need One?
A divorce coach isn’t a therapist and isn’t a lawyer. They’re the person who helps you manage the overwhelm, make decisions, and get through the process without losing yourself in it.
How to Survive a Divorce While the World Is Burning
So if you’re in that place right now—if your personal life is on fire while the wider world feels like it’s burning too—I see you. I wrote this for you, because there are still things you can do for the larger world, even when your own world is falling apart. It all begins in the smallest of moments: sitting on the floor to play, baking a cake, sending an email, drawing a boundary.
10 Practical, Free Ways to Support Someone Going Through Divorce
When someone is going through a divorce, people often say, “I’m here if you need anything.” But that’s vague and puts the emotional labor back on the person who’s already overwhelmed. Instead, here are 10 specific, actionable ways to show up—no money required, just heart and follow-through.
What to Ask for in a Divorce When You Don’t Know What to Ask For in the Divorce Settlement
When your lawyer says, "Make a list of everything you want," it can feel overwhelming. Divorce is about more than paperwork — it's about protecting your future, your children’s stability, and your ability to rebuild. This guide breaks down exactly what to ask for in a divorce, why each item matters, and how to advocate for yourself clearly and confidently.
10 Realistic Ways to Pay for a Divorce When You’re Broke
Divorce can be overwhelming—especially when you’re already stretched thin emotionally, mentally, and financially. If you're a woman navigating a separation with kids at home and don’t have the funds upfront, know this: you are not alone, and there are real options to help you move forward. Here are 10 compassionate, empowering, and accessible ways to pay for a divorce, even if you’re starting with zero in the bank. These are designed with real-life situations in mind—because everyone deserves a safe and fresh start.
Legal Aid and Sliding Scale Legal Services: Your Guide to Affordable Legal Help
When you’re navigating divorce, custody, domestic violence, or property division — or any life-changing legal situation — having professional legal guidance can be the difference between confusion and confidence. But what if hiring a lawyer at full price just isn’t possible right now? Let’s walk through one of the smartest ways to get professional help without breaking the bank: Legal Aid and Sliding Scale Legal Services.
What to Consider if You’re Considering Filing a DIY Divorce
Considering a DIY divorce? Before you file on your own, learn the key factors you need to weigh, from legal risks to emotional impact. A do-it-yourself divorce can save money, but it’s not always the right fit. Discover what to consider to protect your future and make confident, informed decisions.
Self-Filing for Divorce: How to Navigate DIY Divorce Without a Lawyer
If you’re ready to get divorced but can’t afford a lawyer—or simply want to handle the process on your own—there’s a powerful, low-cost option you might not know enough about: self-filing for divorce, also known as DIY divorce. With the right tools, resources, and guidance, many people successfully complete their divorce without legal representation—especially when both spouses agree on the major issues like custody, support, and property division. This guide walks you through what DIY divorce is, why it’s a smart choice for many, and how to get started step by step.
Free Legal Help for Divorce: How to Access Law School Legal Clinics
Going through divorce or custody issues but can’t afford a lawyer? Law school legal clinics offer free family law support from supervised students. This blog post explains how to find a clinic near you, what services they provide, and how to apply. Learn how to access divorce help, court filings, and custody guidance—without the legal fees.
How to Borrow Money from Friends or Family to Start the Divorce Process (Without Burning Bridges)
Need help covering the cost of your divorce? This blog post offers practical, respectful advice on how to ask friends or family for a short-term loan—without guilt or burning bridges. Learn how to create a repayment plan, approach the conversation with confidence, and fund your fresh start with support and clarity. Perfect for anyone starting over on a budget.
How Women’s Shelters and Nonprofits Can Be a Lifeline During Divorce or Transition
If you’re facing divorce, leaving an unsafe relationship, or navigating a major life change without support, nonprofit organizations and shelters can be a lifeline. This blog post shares how to find free, confidential help—like legal aid, housing, transportation, and more—through women’s shelters, local nonprofits, and national resources like 211 and The Hotline.
Affordable Legal Help: How to Find Divorce Attorneys with Payment Plans
Divorce can be expensive, but legal help doesn’t have to be out of reach. This blog post walks you through how to find family law attorneys who offer payment plans, flat fees, or unbundled services. Learn how to ask about payment options during consultations and where to search for budget-friendly legal support so you can move forward without financial overwhelm.
Pro Bono Attorneys 101: How to Get Free Legal Support for Family Court
If you’re facing divorce or a custody battle and can’t afford a lawyer, pro bono attorneys can help. This blog post explains how to find free legal support through state bar associations, legal aid clinics, and nonprofit organizations. Learn who qualifies, what to expect, and how to confidently ask for the help you deserve.