Avoid These Costly Divorce Mistakes: Divorce Financial Advocate Rhonda Noordyk Breaks Down What Really Matters
The moment you begin preparing for divorce often feels like standing in front of a mountain you never asked to climb—papers everywhere, decisions waiting for you, and a nervous system that can barely keep up. In this episode of Divorce Happens, we sit down with Rhonda Noordyk, a certified divorce financial analyst, financial divorce advocate, and longtime Fresh Starts Expert who has helped thousands of women navigate the financial side of separation with clarity, compassion, and strategy. From the very first minutes, Rhonda brings a grounding presence to a topic that often feels overwhelming, reminding listeners that divorce preparation begins with one simple, radical act: breathe.
Throughout the conversation, Rhonda unpacks her signature approach to divorce financial planning, offering deeply practical—and deeply human—guidance for anyone facing uncertainty. She explains why reviewing your financials in small, manageable time blocks can reduce emotional overwhelm, why organizing bank statements becomes a form of empowerment, and how her CIA method—Communication, Integrity, Advocacy—can help you choose the right divorce team. She also shares candid client stories: the woman who finally understood her spouse was dodging disclosure, the client who discovered hidden income only after slowing down and asking better questions, the women who found their confidence by learning how to negotiate from a place of truth rather than fear.
By the end of the episode, listeners walk away not only with tangible divorce preparation strategies—document organization tips, negotiation insights, and financial clarity tools—but with something even more important: a sense of steadiness. Rhonda emphasizes that you get one chance to get your divorce agreement right, and that knowledge becomes a powerful invitation to slow down, stay curious, and build a solid foundation. If you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting transitions, or financial overwhelm, this conversation offers hope, direction, and the reminder that you deserve support every step of the way.
Learn more about Rhonda Noordyk: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/financial-divorce-advocate