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Divorce 101: N Is for Negotiation (and November)
November is a month of tension and transition, which makes it a fitting time to talk about negotiation, the process where much of divorce actually gets decided. Whether it happens through attorneys, in mediation, or at a settlement conference, negotiation isnโt about winning or losing. Itโs about reaching workable agreements and keeping decisions in the hands of the people who will live with them. Preparation, clear priorities, and patience matter more than force.
Divorce 101: O Is for Orders (and October)
October is a month of structure. Routines settle, schedules solidify, and life begins to operate with more predictability after the flux of summer and early fall. In divorce, that same need for structure is often met through ordersโthe legally binding instructions that bring stability while everything else is still being sorted out.
Divorce 101: S Is for Separation (and September)
Framed around September's return to routine, this piece unpacks "separation" as far more than an informal in-between โ a transition that can carry real legal and financial consequences (from property division dates to support calculations) while also marking the emotionally hardest phase of divorce.
Divorce 101: A Is for Affidavit (and August)
An affidavit is a written statement made under oath โ legal evidence, not an informal explanation โ and in divorce it appears everywhere: financial affidavits detailing income and assets, parenting affidavits describing routines, and sworn statements supporting motions on custody, support, or safety.
Divorce 101: J Is for Judgment (and July)
Your July cheat sheet for understanding what a divorce judgment actually means โ minus the legalese, plus the emotional reality nobody warns you about.
Divorce 101: J Is for Joint Custody (and June)
Joint custody is one of the most common โ and most misunderstood โ concepts in divorce. It doesn't automatically mean a 50/50 split. It's not a scorecard. And it's not a measure of parental worth. This piece breaks down what joint custody actually means, why the distinction between legal and physical custody matters, and how to think about it as a framework โ not a competition.
Divorce 101: M Is for Mediation (and May)
May is a month of growth and possibility. Itโs when things begin to open, stretch, and soften after a long winter. That makes it a fitting time to talk about one of the most effectiveโand often misunderstoodโpaths through divorce: mediation.
Divorce 101: M Is for Marital Assets (and March)
March has a way of waking us upโwindows open, closets emptied, life quietly asking: what are we carrying forward? Thatโs why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, M is for Marital Assets. Marital assets are the things built during the marriageโsometimes obvious (the house, savings, retirement), sometimes surprising (stock options, points, miles)โand understanding them matters because you canโt protect or divide what you donโt even realize exists. This isnโt about being combative; itโs about getting clear, gathering whatโs real, and making intentional choices as you step into whatโs next.
Divorce 101: F Is for Financial Disclosure (and February)
February has a reputation for being about loveโroses, chocolates, grand gestures. But in the world of divorce, February often marks something quieter and far more practical: clarity. Thatโs why this month, in our Divorce 101 A to Z series, F is for Financial Disclosure.
Divorce 101 AโZ: The Plain-Language Guide Everyone Deserves
Most divorce resources assume you already speak the languageโleaving you overwhelmed when what you really need is clarity. Divorce 101 AโZ was created to explain divorce one letter at a time, using plain, compassionate language that removes fear instead of adding to it. In this episode, we share how this 26-part mini-series breaks down common terms and experiences without jargon, pressure, or worst-case spirals. Think of it as the Schoolhouse Rock of divorce: short, supportive lessons designed to meet you exactly where you are and help you start fresh.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Digital Divorce: How to Protect Your Online Life Before, During, and After Divorce
Divorce isnโt just about dividing homes and bank accountsโit also means separating your digital life. In this guide, learn how to protect your digital assets, reset passwords, secure personal information, and create social media boundaries. Weโll walk you through what to consider, who can help, and what steps to take now to ensure your online safety during and after divorce.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Navigating Social Security and Retirement Benefits During Divorce: What You Need to Know to Protect Your Future
Divorce impacts more than just your current financesโit can affect your retirement and long-term security. In this guide, we explain how Social Security benefits, pensions, and retirement accounts are divided in divorce, what rules apply, and how to protect your financial future. Learn what experts can help and what steps to take now to secure long-term stability after divorce.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Understanding the Divorce Legal Process and Court Appearances: A Step-by-Step Guide for Clarity and Confidence
Confused about how the divorce legal process actually works? This clear, step-by-step guide walks you through everything from filing to final court appearances. Learn what to expect at each stage, how to emotionally and practically prepare, and what experts can help you along the way. Gain clarity before you even step foot in a courtroom.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Understanding Spousal Support and Alimony: What You Need to Know Before Divorce
Spousal supportโalso known as alimonyโcan be one of the most confusing and emotionally charged aspects of divorce. In this guide, we break down how alimony works, what factors determine eligibility, how to prepare for the process, and what to expect emotionally and financially. Whether you may pay or receive support, understanding your rights helps you move forward with clarity and confidence.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Finding the Right Divorce Attorney: What to Ask, What to Look For, and How to Choose Legal Support That Aligns With You
Choosing the right divorce attorney is one of the most important decisions youโll make. In this guide, weโll break down how to find legal representation that aligns with your values, goals, and budget. Learn what questions to ask, what red flags to watch for, and how to build your legal support team using our free e-book with 250+ essential questions for navigating divorce.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Navigating the Legal Landscape: What You Need to Know Before You File for Divorce
Divorce isnโt just emotionalโitโs legal. In this essential guide, we break down the key legal concepts you need to understand before you file, including types of divorce, custody options, and property division. Learn how to prepare for your first attorney meeting and take action with expert guidance, so you can move forward informed, empowered, and ready to advocate for yourself.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Before You Even Begin to Consider Divorce: The Questions No One Asks (But Should)
Before you even allow the word โdivorceโ to form in your mind, there are powerful questions to explore. In this guide, weโll walk you through early signs, emotional red flags, and hidden patternsโlike invisible labor and unmet needsโthat might be leading you to this crossroads. Learn how to separate momentary overwhelm from deeper disconnect and gather clarity before you take the next step.
What to Consider When Youโre Considering Divorce: Understanding Your Financial Landscape: What You Must Know Before Considering Divorce
Financial fear keeps many people stuck in unhappy marriages. In this guide, weโll help you begin understanding your financial landscapeโbreaking down how to assess your current money situation, gather key documents, and prepare for the future. If youโre considering divorce, having a clear picture of your finances is one of the most empowering steps you can take.
Fresh Starts Registry: The First Divorce Support Network for Navigating Divorce with Confidence
Fresh Starts Registry is the first-ever divorce support network designed to guide you through every step of your divorce journey. Connect with trusted expertsโdivorce lawyers, coaches, therapists, parenting specialists, career advisors, healers, and moreโwho understand the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. You're not alone. Your fresh start begins here.
I'm Divorced, and Now What? 10 Essential Steps to Get Your Life in Order After Divorce
Divorce is a life-changing event that often comes with a whirlwind of emotions, decisions, and adjustments. Once the paperwork is finalized, you might feel a sense of relief, but itโs also the beginning of a new chapter that requires careful attention to some essential administrative tasks. Whether itโs updating your financial documents, revisiting your estate plan, or managing joint accounts, this is the time to take control of your future and set yourself up for stability and success.