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Build Your Perfect Saturday
There's a reason the perfect-Saturday trick works better than the standard birthday advice. A Saturday doesn't ask you to perform. It has no agenda built into it, no candles, no one waiting to see whether you look happy enough. It's just a day that's yours to shape โ which is exactly what a birthday is supposed to be and almost never feels like, especially in the middle of a fresh start. You're just designing one good day, on purpose, around what actually makes you feel like yourself. The worksheet below is here to help you find out what that is.
Another Year, Unasked
July Letter from the Editor
Marriage equality was a landmark โ but equality in dissolution hasn't caught up. In this issue's editor's letter, Jenny Dreizen calls out the legal gaps, professional blind spots, and lack of affirming support that LGBTQ+ individuals still face when a marriage ends. Finding the right attorney or therapist shouldn't be a second battle. Divorce doesn't look one way โ neither does starting over."
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Expert Feature Anna Howerton, Relationship Coach
In an engaging interview, Anna Howerton, a dedicated Relationship Coach, shares her journey in helping individuals navigate the challenging phases of divorce and relationships. Her insights emphasize the importance of clarity, empowerment, and personal growth, making her approach both relatable and impactful in guiding clients toward their fresh starts.
Hey Olivia: I Thought I'd Feel Relieved. Instead I've Been Crying for Days.
A reader wonders why signing the divorce papers broke her open โ and asks the question so many of us are afraid to ask out loud.
Divorce 101: J Is for Judgment (and July)
Your July cheat sheet for understanding what a divorce judgment actually means โ minus the legalese, plus the emotional reality nobody warns you about.
Jenny Says So: โBut Divorce Is So Hard on the Kidsโฆโ
You don't owe strangers your justification. You can be compassionate without accepting shame โ and protect your kids without performing your pain for the public.
Why We Stay When We Know We Should Leave
Why We Stay When We Know We Should Leave by Tina Huggins, Your Divorce Coach Specialist
Hereโs How Working With a Career Transition Specialist Can Help You with Rachel Spekman
In an insightful interview, Rachel Spekman, a Career Transition Specialist, discusses her role in guiding clients through the divorce process. She emphasizes the importance of addressing both emotional and professional challenges to help individuals rebuild their identity and achieve fulfilling careers post-divorce.
When Divorce Is a Thought You Canโt Ignore: How Coaching Helps Men and Women Navigate One of Lifeโs Most Difficult Decisions
When Divorce Is a Thought You Canโt Ignore: How Coaching Helps Men and Women Navigate One of Lifeโs Most Difficult Decisions by Hope Firsel, Divorce Coach
Hereโs How Working With a BeH2Oยฎ Co-Parenting Coach Can Help You Safeguard Your Childโs Peace
Hereโs How Working With a BeH2Oยฎ Co-Parenting Coach Can Help You Safeguard Your Childโs Peace by Maria Natapov, โThe Nurturing Strategistโ, BeH2Oยฎ Certified Co-Parenting & Stepparenting Coach
Divorce Guide: 10 Essential Questions to Ask a Potential Divorce Coach
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask when choosing a divorce coach. Learn how to assess their experience, support for high-conflict situations, understanding of co-parenting, and emotional resilience strategies. Explore how the right coach can help you navigate the complexities of divorce, rebuild your life, and set clear goals for your future.
Pro Bono Attorneys 101: How to Get Free Legal Support for Family Court
If youโre facing divorce or a custody battle and canโt afford a lawyer, pro bono attorneys can help. This blog post explains how to find free legal support through state bar associations, legal aid clinics, and nonprofit organizations. Learn who qualifies, what to expect, and how to confidently ask for the help you deserve.
What to consider when youโre considering divorce: financial considerations, banking, credit cards, and debt
Divorce can be overwhelming, but understanding its financial implications is essential for your future. This post covers important financial considerations such as managing joint bank accounts, dividing debt, and creating a personal financial plan. Weโll guide you through the steps to ensure financial clarity and help you make informed decisions during this challenging time.
Divorce Guide: How to Create a Post-Divorce Financial Budget for Your Lifestyle (without getting overwhelmed)
A post-divorce budget is crucial for regaining control and creating a clear plan for your financial future. Hereโs how to create a post-divorce budget that fits your new lifestyle, including essential categories, how to keep it simple, and how to adjust it as your circumstances evolve.