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Jenny Says So: Weddings After Divorce
A newly divorced reader writes in anxious about attending a wedding where her ex will also be a guest — unsure about dating logistics, seating, whether to alert the couple, and how to act if she crosses paths with her ex, all while trying not to make the couple's day about her situation.
Jenny Says So: The Group Chat After the Breakup
A reader still sharing a long-standing friend group chat with her ex asks how to protect her peace without abandoning her community or forcing friends to pick sides. Jenny reassures her that boundaries aren't drama and offers three graceful options — quietly muting, starting a parallel thread, or asking a trusted friend to help set up a clean separation.
Jenny Says So: The New Partner at Kid Events
A parent asks how to handle the ex's new partner suddenly appearing at school concerts, soccer games, and kid birthday parties — under the watchful eyes of other parents — without looking bitter or pretending to be a happy blended family. Jenny's rule is "neutral grace": be civil, brief, and kid-centered with a simple script and an exit strategy, then let yourself feel it all afterward.
Jenny Says So: The Post-Divorce Set-Up Parade
What do you do when everyone wants to set you up — but you're still figuring out who you are post-divorce? In this column, Jenny tackles the pressure to date before you're ready, why your timeline isn't anyone else's business, and the exact scripts to shut it down with grace. Kindness doesn't require compliance.
Dating After Divorce - Do the Don’ts
Dating After Divorce - Do the Don’ts by Taylor Beck of Revive & Rise Coaching
Divorce Guide: How to Talk to Your Kids About Your New Relationship After Divorce
Talking to your kids about a new relationship after divorce can feel daunting, but it’s a conversation that lays the foundation for trust and emotional security. By handling this conversation thoughtfully, you can ease their worries, answer their questions, and create a safe space for everyone to navigate this new chapter together.
Divorce Guide: 10 Tips for Navigating a New Relationship Post-Divorce With Kids
Starting a new relationship after a divorce can feel like uncharted territory—especially when you have kids. In this post, we’re diving into 10 practical tips to help navigate dating after divorce with kids. Whether you’re just dipping your toes into the dating pool or already in a budding relationship, these strategies will help you prioritize both your happiness and your children’s well-being.