What to say to your friend who was cheated on


These scripts should serve as a guide for tough, trying, and tremendous life moments.

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Here’s what to say when you don’t know what to say.


Well, that fucking sucks. I am so sorry. How completely cruel and spineless. Cheating says everything about the cheater and nothing about the one who is cheated on. I would imagine you feel really crappy right now, and I just want you to know that you're a truly amazing human being and I'm so honored to be in your orbit. FaceTime me when you can so we can sing angry songs together. This is a huge betrayal and I want to validate that, as well as all of your other feelings. There are a lot of big feelings right now, but they won't last forever, and I will help you find your way out. I love you and you deserve so much better.


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