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What to Ask for in a Divorce When You Don’t Know What to Ask For in the Divorce Settlement
When your lawyer says, "Make a list of everything you want," it can feel overwhelming. Divorce is about more than paperwork — it's about protecting your future, your children’s stability, and your ability to rebuild. This guide breaks down exactly what to ask for in a divorce, why each item matters, and how to advocate for yourself clearly and confidently.