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A reader wants to respond with compassion β and asks how to show up for someone she doesn't know very well.
Framed around September's return to routine, this piece unpacks "separation" as far more than an informal in-between β a transition that can carry real legal and financial consequences (from property division dates to support calculations) while also marking the emotionally hardest phase of divorce.
A reader still sharing a long-standing friend group chat with her ex asks how to protect her peace without abandoning her community or forcing friends to pick sides. Jenny reassures her that boundaries aren't drama and offers three graceful options β quietly muting, starting a parallel thread, or asking a trusted friend to help set up a clean separation.
Before You Sign Away Your Financial Future, Know What Youβre Agreeing To by Donna Cates, CDFA by Donna Cates, CDFA
In an insightful interview, Meredith Beardmore, a licensed Therapist, shares her journey in supporting clients transitioning through divorce, emphasizing clarity and empowerment. Her unique approach blends personal experience with professional insight, illustrating the importance of reclaiming agency in life's most challenging moments. Discover more about her impactful work.
In an insightful interview, Julie Jenkins, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, discusses how she supports women navigating financial complexities during divorce. She emphasizes clarity, strategy, and confidence, ensuring clients make informed decisions for a sustainable future. Her unique approach combines empathy and expertise, helping women regain control over their financial lives.
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September Letter from the Editor
Every September, Jenny's grandmother took her and Olivia to Staples for school supplies, laid it all out on the kitchen table, and made it feel like the year ahead was possible. In this month's Letter from the Editor, she traces how her parents' divorce didn't break her family β it opened it, making room for grandparents, aunts, uncles, and found family to step into bigger roles. A reminder that a fresh start isn't always a break. Sometimes it's the crack that lets the light in.
Photo by Melanie Tannenbaum
Will My Kids Be Okay?: The First 90 Days of a Divorce Shape Everything & How to Make them Count by Kate Alcamo of The Co-Parent Collective
Divorce and College Planning: What Divorced and Separated Parents Need to Know Before the College Process Begins by Vicki Vollweiler of College Financial Prep, Divorce & College Planning Expert
Discover the 10 essential questions to ask a professional organizer while navigating a divorce to find the right support for decluttering, downsizing, and moving. Learn how their experience, organizing strategies, and emotional sensitivity can help you create a fresh, organized start post-divorce.
Considering divorce involves emotional and financial complexities, including the division of real estate, estate planning updates, and managing shared assets. These practical steps are crucial for ensuring long-term stability and security after a separation. Our blog post provides actionable insights to help you navigate these key factors with confidence and clarity.
Domestic Abuse Isnβt Always Physical In Nature by Oona Metz, founder of Oona Metz, LICSW, Therapist
Here at Fresh Starts, we believe that divorce parties are not only beautiful moments in life but also empowering acts of self-affirmation and renewal. Here are 10 reasons to honor your divorce with a divorce party and divorce celebration!
Divorce can be a challenging transition for teenagers, who are navigating their own complex emotions and identities amidst the changes in their family structure. However, it's important to recognize that divorce, when approached with empathy and support, can foster resilience and growth in teenagers. Here are 10 ways to support your teenager through divorce, along with the positive effects it can have on their development in the long run.
Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged process, and amidst the legalities and negotiations, it is often the welfare of our beloved pets and animals that gets overlooked. We rounded up 10 questions to ask a divorce lawyer about the custody arrangement of your family pets, and the reasons why it is essential to have open conversations with a divorce lawyer about the custody arrangement for your family pet or animals.
September Letter from the Editor
Every September, Jenny's grandmother took her and Olivia to Staples for school supplies, laid it all out on the kitchen table, and made it feel like the year ahead was possible. In this month's Letter from the Editor, she traces how her parents' divorce didn't break her family β it opened it, making room for grandparents, aunts, uncles, and found family to step into bigger roles. A reminder that a fresh start isn't always a break. Sometimes it's the crack that lets the light in.
Photo by Melanie Tannenbaum
September Letter from the Editor
Every September, Jenny's grandmother took her and Olivia to Staples for school supplies, laid it all out on the kitchen table, and made it feel like the year ahead was possible. In this month's Letter from the Editor, she traces how her parents' divorce didn't break her family β it opened it, making room for grandparents, aunts, uncles, and found family to step into bigger roles. A reminder that a fresh start isn't always a break. Sometimes it's the crack that lets the light in.
Photo by Melanie Tannenbaum
Expert Features
In an insightful interview, Meredith Beardmore, a licensed Therapist, shares her journey in supporting clients transitioning through divorce, emphasizing clarity and empowerment. Her unique approach blends personal experience with professional insight, illustrating the importance of reclaiming agency in life's most challenging moments. Discover more about her impactful work.
In an insightful interview, Julie Jenkins, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, discusses how she supports women navigating financial complexities during divorce. She emphasizes clarity, strategy, and confidence, ensuring clients make informed decisions for a sustainable future. Her unique approach combines empathy and expertise, helping women regain control over their financial lives.
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Divorce can be a challenging transition for teenagers, who are navigating their own complex emotions and identities amidst the changes in their family structure. However, it's important to recognize that divorce, when approached with empathy and support, can foster resilience and growth in teenagers. Here are 10 ways to support your teenager through divorce, along with the positive effects it can have on their development in the long run.
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Before You Sign Away Your Financial Future, Know What Youβre Agreeing To by Donna Cates, CDFA by Donna Cates, CDFA
Will My Kids Be Okay?: The First 90 Days of a Divorce Shape Everything & How to Make them Count by Kate Alcamo of The Co-Parent Collective
Divorce and College Planning: What Divorced and Separated Parents Need to Know Before the College Process Begins by Vicki Vollweiler of College Financial Prep, Divorce & College Planning Expert
Domestic Abuse Isnβt Always Physical In Nature by Oona Metz, founder of Oona Metz, LICSW, Therapist
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Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged process, and amidst the legalities and negotiations, it is often the welfare of our beloved pets and animals that gets overlooked. We rounded up 10 questions to ask a divorce lawyer about the custody arrangement of your family pets, and the reasons why it is essential to have open conversations with a divorce lawyer about the custody arrangement for your family pet or animals.
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A state senator who once believed her joint accounts were frozen the moment she filed for divorce β only to watch her ex drain them completely. Senator Bradley sits down with Olivia to unpack North Carolina's brutal divorce laws, the abuse that hides in the paperwork, and how she turned her worst year into a policy fight.
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Considering divorce involves emotional and financial complexities, including the division of real estate, estate planning updates, and managing shared assets. These practical steps are crucial for ensuring long-term stability and security after a separation. Our blog post provides actionable insights to help you navigate these key factors with confidence and clarity.
Here at Fresh Starts, we believe that divorce parties are not only beautiful moments in life but also empowering acts of self-affirmation and renewal. Here are 10 reasons to honor your divorce with a divorce party and divorce celebration!
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