What Is a Motion for Rule to Show Cause in Divorce?
If you’re navigating a divorce or custody situation and you’ve been told someone is filing a “Motion for Rule to Show Cause” — or you’re thinking of filing one yourself — you might be wondering:
What does that actually mean?
Let’s break it down in clear, simple terms.
What Is a “Rule to Show Cause”?
A Rule to Show Cause is a legal request for the court to step in when someone isn’t following a court order — like not paying support, not turning over paperwork, or refusing to follow a custody schedule.
The person filing this motion is basically saying:
“The other party isn’t doing what the judge ordered, and I want the court to make them explain why — and hold them accountable.”
If the court agrees there’s a valid reason to investigate, they will schedule a hearing and legally require the other party to appear in court and “show cause” — meaning, show a good reason why they didn’t comply.
When Is It Used?
This type of motion is commonly used when one person:
Stops paying child support or spousal support
Violates the parenting time or custody schedule
Refuses to turn over financial documents or information
Doesn’t follow through with a court-ordered action (like selling a house, paying a debt, or transferring property)
If your ex isn’t following the rules that the judge laid out in your divorce or custody agreement, and it’s affecting your life, this is a tool your lawyer can use to try to enforce compliance.
What Happens at the Hearing?
At the Rule to Show Cause hearing:
The judge will listen to both sides.
The person accused of disobeying the order has to explain themselves.
If the judge finds they knowingly violated the order without a valid excuse, they can be held in contempt of court.
Contempt can lead to serious consequences, including:
Paying your legal fees
Being fined by the court
Losing parenting time
In very rare and extreme cases — even jail time
The goal here isn’t punishment. It’s accountability. The court wants people to follow the agreements they made — and to protect those who are being affected when they don’t.
What Should You Do if You’re Involved in One?
Whether you’re filing a Motion for Rule to Show Cause or you’ve been served with one, here’s what to keep in mind:
Talk to a lawyer. These motions can carry serious consequences, so don’t try to handle it alone.
Gather documentation. Save text messages, emails, financial records — anything that shows what’s happening (or not happening).
Show up. If you were served with a Rule to Show Cause, do not ignore it. You need to be in court, with a clear explanation or defense.
Stay calm. This is a legal process, not a personal attack. It’s okay to be upset — but stay focused on facts and compliance.
You’re Not Overreacting
If someone isn’t following the court orders that protect you, your finances, or your children, it’s not “too dramatic” to ask the court for help. That’s what the system is supposed to be for.
And if you’re on the receiving end of this motion — remember that it’s not the end of the world. But it does mean it’s time to take things seriously, understand what’s being asked of you, and show up ready to explain or make it right.
Need Support?
At Fresh Starts Registry, we connect you with divorce experts — including lawyers, coaches, and mediators — who can help you understand motions like this, prepare for hearings, and feel less alone in the process.
You’ve got this. Even when the legal terms feel confusing and cold — we’re here to translate, guide, and support you every step of the way.